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My boyfriend is seriously stressing me so much!

He wants EVERYTHING to be his way!

Ok, we haven’t seen each other since Saturday. Partly because he’s been mad at me, and partly because I have no time. Yesterday he asked me to see him today. I couldn’t. He told me maybe I could miss class so i’d see him. I’ve already missed a lot of classes. He got angry because yesterday I missed class because I was too tired. So he said something like “Oh, so you miss class because of your own laziness but you can’t make the sacrifice to see me!”.

So I started calling and calling and calling only to try to make him understand. then he threw some stuff about my past on my face.

Later he called to apologize. I thought everything was fine. I went to bed.

Now he told me I was such a nag and blah, blah. And now he broke up with me!

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Dub420 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

sounds like someone I wouldn’t want to be with anyway, you should be happy.

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noork offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

ooh…! u dont wanna waste anymore of ur precious self on that complaining freak..! u’re best rid of him… it always helps to get the negative ppl out of ur life, even better when they do the favor.. :)

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3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

funny thing is, he’s the one who says I complain too much!
I don’t think I complain, but I hate not being listened to. And if he gets angry and refuses to listen to me, well that’s gonna make me angry and I want to be heard. He takes this a nagging.

I think he’ll come crawling back. I love him, he ususally isn’t like this, why can’t he be normal around me? He usually doesn’t treat other people like this!

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

What I mean by usually not like this is that he’s usually sweet and caring, especially when we see each other. He’s so mean and spoled. He’s even told me he like having everything his way. And he’s older than me, that’s even more worrying.

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noork offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

On a serious note… when 2 ppl bring out the worst in each other, they shd probably not be together.
Whats the keyword of ur relationship? The first thing that comes to ur mind abt him/the relationship?… That’ll help u figure out whats sensible for u..

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Dub420 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

be careful, guys will say/do anything to get into a girls pants. and if he never wants to have a serious talk and only wants things his way, is that someone you really want to be with?

and when the on/off relationship starts, it usually stays that way. I tried working on mine when it got like that with my ex for like 2 years, nothing ever changed with her untill she finally cheated on me so I left.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that? If this is an ongoing thing, which I suspect it could be…the good times don’t likely make up for the bad. Be glad he dumped you, he sounds controlling. You are likely better off without the headache.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (7 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Pick yourself up, dust yourself down, Plenty more fish in the sea :-)

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