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I have no friends.

I live in a small town, and it’s very clique oriented. I’ve always been surrounded by people I though were friends, but I never get invited to do anything and in the end, they all have thier own group of tight people. I tried to wiggle into thier group, but they’ve known each other most thier lives and I ended up having to change myself. I’m tired of this. I want to be accepted for who I am. I am starting high school this year, and my schedule is much different than all my friends, putting me with upperclassmen a lot. How do I make friends while staying true to myself?

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piggy123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

………..

Help me with: I’d really like to ask out a guy who has been a good friend of mine for about three years.

piggy123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t judge people, because there is a lot more to you than I know, so I won’t go after you for that post. :)

Help me with: I’d really like to ask out a guy who has been a good friend of mine for about three years.

N-e-V-e-T-s 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Well just be yourself. Then true friends will find you. There is always someone out there that will be your bud. Just got to find that person!

Help me with: Help with schoolwork please.

Dr Awesome McCool 152 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

if you want to make genuine friends you have to act genuine yourself. just act yourself and people will decide if they want to be your friend or not the ones that do are usually good friends to have.

Help me with: A Man’s A Man for A’ That.

xNA 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, be entirely yourself when you talk to people, so they don’t get the wrong perception of you and will treat you how you should be treated. And being entirely yourself will attract the right people/friends for you.

Dr Awesome McCool 152 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

good answer nevets and xNA just be yourself dude.

Help me with: A Man’s A Man for A’ That.

N-e-V-e-T-s 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

^^ FTW!

Help me with: Help with schoolwork please.

piggy123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Alright, I’ll try. :) I’m afraid, though…. people aren’t really aceepting in our town. It’s really like no other.

Help me with: I’d really like to ask out a guy who has been a good friend of mine for about three years.

xNA 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Good answer yourself, Dr Awesome McCool. We’re all just saying the same thing, lol.

xNA 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

piggy123 wrote:
Alright, I’ll try. :) I’m afraid, though…. people aren’t really aceepting in our town. It’s really like no other.

Well surely some people are more accepting than others. Otherwise, everyone would hate each other wouldn’t they? I hope our advice works. Good luck =)

N-e-V-e-T-s 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I lived in one of those before. So i know how that it. Trust me just be yourself and that will work ^^

Help me with: Help with schoolwork please.

piggy123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Thanks you guys. :) And thanks for letting me know, Nevets. It makes me feel better to know that someone has been through this before.

Help me with: I’d really like to ask out a guy who has been a good friend of mine for about three years.

Dr Awesome McCool 152 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

piggy123 wrote:
Alright, I’ll try. :) I’m afraid, though…. people aren’t really aceepting in our town. It’s really like no other.

like no other all towns are fundamentally the same, if they don’t appear “accepting” then why should that change the way you behave or act don’t let per pressure effect you to such an extent at this stage in your life or you will find it gaining more influence over your decisions in the future, stay true to yourself and enjoy being an individual its they guys like us that make this world remotely interesting.

Help me with: A Man’s A Man for A’ That.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Just be yourself and try not to be shy talk to them

Help me with: since idk wat im doin on this thing and its comfusin how do i delete it?

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 42 minutes after post)

I never really had friends in school i met older people out of school but got connection to there friends that were in school it can be hard

Help me with: since idk wat im doin on this thing and its comfusin how do i delete it?

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