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I have all these Guys at my highschool who like me But I have a fiance

I tell them that but they wont listen.

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操你 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (0 minutes after post)

than your fiance should pay them a visit? lol
scare eemmmmmmmmm

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Dub420 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (0 minutes after post)

highschool and fiance shouldnt be in the same sentence. Thats why the guys dont listen.

you should be happy anyway, tons of people would kill to get compliments like that.

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Sayuri_is_my_geisha_ offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Idk

Am I even alowed to have guy freinds
We joke around about all kinds of things but as he walked me out of school; he had his arm around me and My fiance was PISSED

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

lol
yeah you can
but his arm around you.. thats giving him the wrong idea too.. so thats a bit too much..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Idk If I can handle all this atention its like when i was single everyone thought I was ugly and noone wanted me but now that I have a fiance… I have multiple guys who want me

Does the term boys want what they cant have apply here??

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Hey there. The fact that you are even asking this question makes me wonder if you are sure about your fiance. If you were truly committed, then it would be no big deal to discourage the guys at school who are hitting on you. Also, as another person said, you are awfully young. The attention you are getting from guys can really make you feel awesome. Maybe that’s why you agreed to marry the fiance? Now that you are seeing that others are attracted to you, maybe you’re doubting your agreement to marry the fiance? Just a thought . . .

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well people change you know i guess they thought u were shy or something
and plus a little bit of relation ship changes a girls looks and attitude and stuff
just give them the old slap ..
they shouldnt even be putting there hands on you..
how old are u or wat grade?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

18 and I am a senior

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Oh yeah that too too young to get married..
Seriously how long have you guys even been together?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

2 years but we are not getting married untill I am 20

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

2 years is too short to make the commitment to get married..
And plus how you talk to the other guys its showing your not ready to get married to him anyways.
Not only talking.. even the hand around you.. shows..

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Danijel is right - explore what you’re thinking about all this to help you resolve the question yourself. I think your intuition is guiding you toward re-examining what you want out of your relationship with your fiance. . .

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Lots to think about then

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Actually I was wrong Its been 3-4 years but My mom dosent know SHHHHHHHHHHHHH dont tell

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well if your mom know so thats really bad…
so yeah your going into a bad path here..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

she is actually ok with the wedding she is just worried because I am still her little girl I guess

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Good luck with it - be true to what you are feeling and you’ll make the right decision. If you decide to break the engagement, the hardest part will be telling the fiance, but don’t let that fear prevent you from making such a decision . . .And I’m not saying I think you should break up - just that you need to think carefully about why you’re having doubts and figure it all out.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

thanks well ive g2g BYE YA’ll

ALL the way from texas

Sayuri

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Wait,
what skool you in texas?
I’m seguin

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Yeah, um, this is a stupid topic… just tell the guys to shove off. No need to justify why you don’t like them. If a guy puts his arms around you, break it. Simple as. This just seems like an ego trip to me really… not a real issue…

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Dallas here - must be lots of Texans on today. And no, this isn’t a stupid topic - this poster is probably having doubts for a reason, and she needs to figure it all out.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Nah i’m not texan lol
Just lived here 11 years.. 16 years old..
born in europe :)

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Hey Danijel - living here 11 out of your 16 years makes you a Texan (that is, if you WANT to be one!) :0)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Nah i’m good
lol
got any messengers?

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iwana offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Nah - I’ve only used the online chat that comes with Facebook.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Idk wat to say for this one sorry

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (19 hours, 56 minutes after post)

i feel ya. i have doubts of myman an we/ve ben together for two years an two months an im doubtin us. its natural. but the choice of whether to keep the fiance or dump him is up to you. good luck with it girl. i feel your pain and itll all work out eventually.

love the south carolinian that lives in georgia.

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