life help: after almost 4 years my boyfriend doesnt want me anymore. - Help.com

How old are you?

1st of all know that this baby must come first
Let the boyfriend be, if he wants to help then ok otherwise forget him, he isnt worth your time
you have a child inside of you and that nees to be your first concern along with your own natural health. Your mom needs to get herself on track, next time you see her when she is sober and deffinently not a threat sit her down and lay down the law, tell her you dont like what she is doing and that your bringing a child into this world. your old enough tot ake care of yourself so now its time to step ti up for this little gift.
Congrads on the baby and good luck

25 your old enough to be a single mom!
and you can find somebody else better and dont get a baby quicker than 4 years..
more like 6 ;)
and yeah congrats on the baby :)

You should have a conversation with your boyfriend, and it should go something like this, “Sweetheart, I know that we have had our problems, but we’ve also had enough love to keep us together these four years. Now we have a child on the way. We need to resolve our problems and rekindle our love. There’s no use arguing about things, because that doesn’t solve anything. I am willing to listen and I am willing to ‘fix’ anything I need to fix. I don’t want us to fight any more–because we need to come together as a family now. This is not the time to lead separate lives. Our child needs a full-time father, not someone who just signs child support checks. I don’t want that. I want you and I want our baby to be born into a loving family.”

The “child support” thing should cause him to perk up his ears. He could be forking out $500 - $1,000 per month easily.

If he just wants to be a worthless jerk, however, contact a lawyer so that the child support can be initiated the moment your child is born.

What do you mean by he isn’t interested? Is he truly not interested? If this is the case why would you want to raise a child and be with someone who does not even want to work things out?