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Well does she know yet? I’m guessing no.

well if you dont like her back u just gotta tell her
no point making excusses

You guessed correctly, Captain Setto.

I’m trying to think here- see, if I tell her I like someone else she might be hurt. I don’t want to do that, I’m not that kinda guy.

But I don’t see any other way because I can’t get the girl I like out of my head.

And help.mod/emmmmmma, I would, but she’s my friend right now and our relationship is nice. I don’t want to ruin it and deal with the awkwardness that would ensue.

I suppose you have a point. Thanks.

i see what you mean but as i girl id rather no u werent intresting than just sorta waiting for an answer
does the other girl know u like her yet?

i wouldnt tell her just yet unless you have some what of a relationship with her because if you dont really talk to her much and tell her she might get embarressed.
i would hint it to her like tell her or a friend of hers you like another girl so she can just play it off and forget about it.
but i wouldnt hook up with the other girl just yet. make the hint subtle and give her some time to heel and move on before you hook up with the girl you like.

AmandaLynn wrote:
Your not the kind of guy to hurt someones feelings?? … sweety - lets face reality a second here - what control really do you have over how people feel when it really comes down to it? And can you really say “yes” to everyone just so they dont get their feelings hurt? Can everyone just say “yes” to you so your feelings dont get hurt… and would you want that anyway? …

We all must go our own path. Part of learning about life is learning how to deal with rejection. LEARNING how to deal with it - meaning we have to go through it to learn how to handle it properly. Instead of perceiving that WE ourselves are rejected as a person and individual - we have to learn that it is the RELATIONSHIP that has been rejected - i mean, do we expect EVERYONE to want a relationship with us taht we want a relationship with?? …lol.. no. we dont all match. We have to learn how to take rejection and how to reject. You have to learn how to say no without feeling guilt.. otherwise you will allow yourself to get into all sorts of situations that harm yourself and others. Its ok to have standards, direction, and purpose - and its ok to also stand firm in that.

And you’ll get lots of various opinions on here - but mine is to go to her directly, gently, and realize all you can do is try and communicate with her the best you can - and make sure she knows your not putting her down as a person and individual and young woman - shes just not what your looking for - and there are millions of guys and girls on this planet…. and just because your not interested in her dont mean another guy wont be. Its still likely to hurt her feelings - but the better you can communicate so shes not left with thinking things and go ahead and let her ask her questions then - well … it can help. You cant “not hurt” everyone. But you can learn how to properly present yourself an communicate with everyone.

I couldn’t have said that any better great answer =D