friends help: I feel so alone.

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I feel so alone.

I feel like none of my friends really care about me,that im always last on their list and it’s really getting to me.

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iwana 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Sounds like you need to make some new friends. Maybe you’ve grown past your current group of friends. . .

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

aww hun i know what u mean
what else make you think this? perhaps you could start hanging out with other people

Toodles Setto 445 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Try to make some more friends maybe. Or maybe try and strengthen the bond with your best friends?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Well they are great friends and I luv them to bits but iv just always been the kindv person to be liked by most people but easily forgotton if you know what I mean. Like I no my friends do care a lot for me but I just feel like out of my group of best friends id always be the last one they’d call and sttuff, like it wouldnt be noticed if i wasnt around..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

There has to be something for you to grasp on to and run with, even if they are not your best friends now, they were at one point, so I am sure you can come out of this either finding new relationships or fueling the friendships you already have. Just be honest with your current friends, if they really care they will understand your feelings and see to it that you begin to feel better, if not than you need to take a look inside and find out what you are looking for. In time things will clear up and you will be able to see the resolution, just don’t get down on yourself about it. Not a day goes by where there are not people on this site who feel alone in the world, so do not take it personal. Happens to most of us.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

hmm why dont u talk to em about it i had a similar problem with my mates going back on of them always felt he was the last to know and left out in things but he talked with the rest of us about it and now we always make sure his inculded nad he seems to be a lot more outgoing now.
the rest of us had no idea how he felt

coonee #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Ya like a feel a lot of it is my own fault, i never let people get too close to me i tink i push people away unknown 2 myself. Ive been through an awful lot in the past few years and i tend to always just put on a smile and pretend everythings just fine. Ironically im known as the girl dats always smiling by most people. I dont know why I do it, it just always seems that as soon as anyone gets close to me i put up a barrier. Ive nearly always been in a group of best friends rather than having one very best friend, and iv never been in a serious relationship and i just feel now that i really want sum1 to really care about me and hav me as the 1st person dey tell everyting and dat..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I get what you mean. Same thing is happening with me. Have you tried telling them this? x x x

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