girl help: i just want to know why people seem so nice and then suddenly turn once they get what they want. - Help.com

Well..it doesn’t work that way, you know…
Besides, how many guys/girls would be turned down if they did that?

I know exactly what you mean! Hell I’m no prude and having returned to the dating scene I appreciate some honesty. There is nothing more annoying than having invested the time getting to know someone whom you think is looking for the same thing only to find out they want to get you into the back seat of their frikken Lexus. Not that there is anything bad about just wanting some freaky wild monkey sexy time, but geez..if that’s all you want, say so. If you lie, what the hell do I want to do with you?! I don’t find sneaky men attractive. It annoys the hell out of me. Honesty people! Grrr!

~end rant~
lol

its called manipulation… its mind games that they play to get someone to give into their every wimb… once you learn of their manipulating personality.. you need to learn how to say no to them..

I have no trouble saying no, just annoyed that I have to. Seems as though respect is seriously lacking for many people these days. You’re bang on about the personality, I usually know now within minutes.

you are right… people now a days are not respectful… and i believe that if you want respect, then you have to provide it for others… if not.. sit on it and rotate…

yeah, i have this thing where i can usually sense someone’s real personality long before i get to know them… as i have been through so many ‘users’ through out my life…

Yep, them good ole “red flags” lol

hehehehehhehe.. i hear ya.. lol

I’m honest :D. not all men suck *** and lie

and you are right hybrid… there are those very few out there in the world…

Hybrid Theory wrote:
I’m honest :D. not all men suck *** and lie

You bet, I know there are some wonderful men out there, I suspect that is why I haven’t given up altogether :) As it is though I do believe I shall let fate if it exists take over, these dates are getting cumbersome. :P

i use to go looking for dates.. only to find that the men were total jerks, cheaters and such… i finally actually gave up.. didnt want anyone.. just wanted to be alone.. and then he found me… and i could not ever be any happier…

I’m glad for you Shie, you deserve to be happy. :)

thanks hun… i guess the whole moral of it is… just wait for him to find you… trust me.. it is all well worth the wait…

So does that mean when the right one comes along he won’t even fart in bed?! Booyah! :)

hahahahahahahahahaha…. no… i doubt that…. my honey farts in bed… ~sigh~ lmfao…

Dagnabit! Boys…(rolls eyes) lol

hahahahahahahahahaha

i agree, i realized that most men lie.. but i guess i just done see the point. tell me what you want because if your not the “boyfriend material” that im looking for, you might just catch me on a good night. or if not me some other girl and get just what it is your looking for. and for the guys who drag on some meaningless set of dates… thats what i dont get.

i actually had a boyfriend that lied soooooo much… he could be wearing a red shirt and would argue with me that it was blue… lmfao..