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if it makes you feel beter you can think wow i look better then this random guy on the internet

I kinda was like that…
But believe me, what ppl want to see, is someone with confidence in him…someone strong, and that trust and knows himself…

well, i don’t remember who, but some1 here once said that you can only be ugly if your face it’s been hacked by a psyco killer or if it looks like it’s been melted by lava.. lol and I fully agree.

It’s not that you are really ugly, this world has lots of different ppl, and I’d say that maybe 97% of them can and do find hapiness.. it’s just a matter of time.

If u were born a gorgeous person maybe u’d be different, because they get soo much attention that sometimes they get too spoiled by ppl, also it’s harder for them to find true love because ppl r normally only attracted by their looks, and then they feel pressure to always look ’stunning’ to please other ppl, so it’s all relative..

Also, all the hurt u r feeling, it shapes your personality, it makes you who you are, you need pain in life to become a better person, we all do… the ppl who have been hurt the most are normally the most compassionate.

Maybe it’s just a bit hard for u to socialize and all because you are afraid of rejection, and that stops you from trying to go out there and just have fun.. maybe you just need to go out more, be more active, join clubs or young ppl in any field that could interest you, or learn some martial arts, or go to a gym, get a pet to take out.. stuff like that, just be more active..

Besides take a good look at yourself in the mirror, that’s who you are going to be with for the rest of your life, and that’s pretty good, because you have the legacy of your parents, and your grandparents, i mean, you are probably the product of a lot of work and struggle of lovely ppl.. you have to be proud of who you are.. maybe change what you can, maybe the way you dress, the way your hair is, but do it to please YOURSELF, do what YOU want to do, look how YOU want to look, maybe try different styles and take pictures of yourself, and find what makes you happy.. just keep trying..

When u become more mature you’ll see all these times behind and you’ll see yourself happy, with a family and all.. in the end you will ALWAYS make it, just be comfortable in your own skin, **** everyone else and their opinion.. the opinion of the ppl you really love and trust is the one that matters, the rest of the ppl are irrelevant.

Good luck!

You are beautiful. Why? Because you are unique from anyone one else in this world and you need to find what you think is beautiful about yourself. What makes you beautiful?

You don’t want someone who is only attracted to you for your looks…the whole package is what is truly important.

don’t worry about looks
they are not important
u seem like a WONDERFUL person here and on the inside…that is what truely matters.

I know how you feel. I feel the same way. I’m very insecure about how I look. But I try every day to make myself feel good in some way. Trust me, a lot of people don’t know what I go through every day to look acceptable. Most don’t know that I have to comb over my hair because I have bald spots and a visible scalp. I could be all depressed about this, but I choose not to be. Its all down to a choice between positive and negative thinking, yeah? We all have our good days and bad days. Accept and embrace who you are! Its the most important thing :)

There’s a study that says everyone in the world would be found attractive by atleast 2000 people around the world.

Everyone in my school thinks I’m ugly. Every time I look in the mirror, I get sick. But my boyfriend thinks I’m attractive. He must have very bad taste but It’s a good thing.

youre not ugly! youll find someone one day who will love you and not care how you look. its whats on the inside that really counts. i believe taht everyone is beautiful in their own ways! you dont have to be good looking on the outside to be a beautiful person.

You don’t need someone else to make you feel attractive, you need the confidence in yourself to know that you are.

miss_enigma wrote:
You don’t need someone else to make you feel attractive, you need the confidence in yourself to know that you are.

EXACTLY! you worded my thoughts perfectly lol

Queen Angel wrote:
youre not ugly! youll find someone one day who will love you and not care how you look. its whats on the inside that really counts. i believe taht everyone is beautiful in their own ways! you dont have to be good looking on the outside to be a beautiful person.

realy **** i need to be buetiful on the inside to **** come on im neither =[ someday ill get something right

Animal i have become wrote:

Queen Angel wrote:
youre not ugly! youll find someone one day who will love you and not care how you look. its whats on the inside that really counts. i believe taht everyone is beautiful in their own ways! you dont have to be good looking on the outside to be a beautiful person.

realy **** i need to be buetiful on the inside to **** come on im neither =[ someday ill get something right

hey! dont say that! youre both! everyone just has a different view of themselves than other people do of them.

do you follow me every were?

every girl can be pretty if she tries hard enough. I’ve been convinced of that as I’ve watched girl after girl become beautiful overnight. you see, unlike boys, we have a special advantage. Makeup! ^_^ try it, it works WONDERS!

im a guy =[ (sobs)

you dont’ NEED makeup, judging by your picture :)
your’e gonna be a hottie when you’re older, man
you might even be a hottie already to people your age!

Animal i have become wrote:
im a guy =[ (sobs)

I think you are a handsome fella, you are young and yet to grow into yourself. Your eyes look really sad in that picture though. Some gal will come along and just think you are fanfreakingtastic..just you wait!

Queen Angel wrote:

miss_enigma wrote:
You don’t need someone else to make you feel attractive, you need the confidence in yourself to know that you are.

EXACTLY! you worded my thoughts perfectly lol

That’s cuz I’m psycho..err..psychic lol

Animal i have become wrote:
do you follow me every were?

are you talking to me???? lol

Queen Angel wrote:

Animal i have become wrote:
do you follow me every were?

are you talking to me???? lol

hmm you just proved my point lol just kiddin

Queen Angel wrote:

Animal i have become wrote:
do you follow me every were?

are you talking to me???? lol

course he is! and course she does! I sense another help.com relationship coming on ;) ;)
lol

no shes married to king rowas rowos? i cant spell i failed 1st grade lol

Animal i have become wrote:

Queen Angel wrote:

Animal i have become wrote:
do you follow me every were?

are you talking to me???? lol

hmm you just proved my point lol just kiddin

what? im not following you :P haha i wrote somethingin this post so i get notified everytime someoen writes something lol! dont worry im no stalker!

Animal i have become wrote:
no shes married to king rowas rowos? i cant spell i failed 1st grade lol

ah so she’s the queen?! I didn’t know that’s what “queen angel” stood for! *bows to her majesty*

did you have to rub it in that i failed first grade

Animal i have become: You’re hot.

Lady Hastanonymous wrote:

Animal i have become wrote:
no shes married to king rowas rowos? i cant spell i failed 1st grade lol

ah so she’s the queen?! I didn’t know that’s what “queen angel” stood for! *bows to her majesty*

hahahha yes im the new queen :D

jackis2 wrote:
Animal i have become: You’re hot.

see! told ya!

Lady Hastanonymous wrote:

jackis2 wrote:
Animal i have become: You’re hot.

see! told ya!

me too! lol

wait i never saw that

go back and read, man!

sorry i fialed 3nd and 5th grade to

well sheesh how many grades did you fail?!

all of them atleast 2ce