trust help: i cant seem to trust anyone…about anything, dont know - Help.com

Any examples?

Say like, a mate asks whats up and even if its just something small, i cant tell them. Im kinda known as the one who doesnt ever have problems or doesnt really give a crap about what happens to me. And because of that i tend not to show mnay emotions

I dont have any major problems or anything, but i cant talk about even small worries with mates and ppl say trust is everything with in your friends..

Are you sure is a trust issue?
Well…maybe you don’t trust yourself…

Hmm how do you mean like a lack of confidence thing…
Thanks for replying btw =D

lol, no problem…

Maybe you don’t want to seem to have problems in front of them…maybe to seem stronger?
I dunno that actually, but in all those trust issues, the problem is ourselves, not the others…
Try to focus in finding why you can trust them…what does that imply?

yeah i guess so.
Cos as ever1 sees me with no problems, i dont want them to think i do have them. Ive known most of them for years and they’d prob me happy 2 help, and wouldnt even think its strange that im asking….

lol, having problems is something completely normal, what’s more not having them is impossible…you don’t have to look happy or tough, you just need to let things go, you can’t control everything, that’ impossible, so just let some things go..

Aw wow thanks some of the stuff you’ve said has really made me think about it.
Guess theres no poin in hiding less important things from mates.. some ppl will jugde but if there real mates, itll be ok.

Thanks, first time on this.
x

No problem, glad to help ^_^

I don’t think they’ll judge you…it’s more like they’ll help you out…that’s what true friends do…

If anything happens, just send me a shout or something =P
Good luck!

i have huge trust issues too and i think it’s from being hurt by others-have u been? i think that it gets better over time-u have to let people earn your trust-to show that they’re worthy of it