Maybe you just need to sit back and relax a bit, yeah work and the future is important, but sometimes its good to just have fun, do something illegal (minorly), see old friends, kiss someone you dont know, play games you did when you were young, do nothing, sleep an extra hour… live life…
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Time Mj.
Give it time.
What you miss is what he made you feel.
go have fun, you’ll move on, not forget, but move on,,, and youll be havin so much fun that youll realize that whatever love your missin’ can be replaced
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relaxin wrote:
Maybe you just need to sit back and relax a bit, yeah work and the future is important, but sometimes its good to just have fun, do something illegal (minorly), see old friends, kiss someone you dont know, play games you did when you were young, do nothing, sleep an extra hour… live life…
but I LOVE doing the stuff I do.
I just wish I had love…
a perfect relationship was put to waste after my ex decided that being in college means he needs to experience more, even though he loved me, and treated me the way I always wanted to be treated.
and now all I can do is think about whether that time will come for me to find the one. I know I am young, but I seem to be more mature for my age. so idk what to do anymore.
I am trying tohang with my friends more often…but they all have relationships and talk about them, and some even have the promise ring…
I just want to be special to someone…not just ANOTHER girl
Come on, your way to serious for the age you are, yeah, i know, more mature for your age, i was told the same thing, but listen, ive realized that you have to go back to the basics, i was told by some girl i dated for 2.5 yrs that i was livin with a wall round me, when i reality, i was just no seein what else was out there, there is so much to do, go find it… be spontaneous, start be seein good friends that will hang with you, forget the rings, forget the relationships, and just hang with you, then see other people, preferably people youve never met or people youve known forever, no inbetween, like i siad, spontaneous=good
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ps, sorry for so many spelling errors there, realized that its hard to read
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“promise ring” don’t mean much so don’t envy that.
You are not “just another girl”.
What makes you think you are “just another girl”?
mjcatdo wrote:
relaxin wrote:
and now all I can do is think about whether that time will come for me to find the one.
You’re seeming too desperate, let your heart heal.
[quote relaxin]ps, sorry for so many spelling errors there, realized that its hard to read
lol
I agree with snoopy here… listen to him bout ring, hes dead on, promise now, forget later,
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Someday you’ll find someone great…and allow me to emphasize the word great. It just happens when you least expect it. Until then don’t dwell, move on.
lol.
but I have to dance..
or I will like die…lol (not rele, but its my passion)
so I cant remove that one for the list.
but I am trying to be a little spontaneous…I am a junior in highschool so I kinda have to be at the top for dance considering the competition I will have to overcome. lol.
but I am trying.
Joey_PR wrote:
“promise ring” don’t mean much so don’t envy that.You are not “just another girl”. What makes you think you are “just another girl”?
mjcatdo wrote:
relaxin wrote:
and now all I can do is think about whether that time will come for me to find the one.
You’re seeming too desperate, let your heart heal. [quote relaxin]ps, sorry for so many spelling errors there, realized that its hard to read
lol
I have been told that I am special, and that I have something unique, espcially for relationships, and he said it was my heart (considering this was my ex) and thats it. the only person to say something like that.
I do feel unique in a sense, because I am probably one of the most nice people you’ll meet in my area and the most considerate. but no one seems to realize it, even though I try to make is shine…but all they get is , she is the girl I can tell anything to, mess around with, and then she’ll forgive me because she is that nice…(which I know when I am treated wrong)
SO I feel taken for granted and everyone looks pass the “uniqueness”
relaxin wrote:
ps, sorry for so many spelling errors there, realized that its hard to read
lol Its ok, I got the point…lol
Listen to this, I have college (honors program and 300/400 level classes) part time job, 2 younger sibs, a puppy(not my idea by the way) and a forensics program that take me out of state every other weekend during the fall and winter… But I found time to be spontaneous,,, took a couple months to realize I had to make it a priority, and it fit in with my life, just take the little bit of free time you have and use it for that reason, its just enouph right there… I now have 4, count them…4, sam, tiffany, laura and kat that I am seein’ as just friends,,, not as anything more… and I have fun with them, we hang out and do absolutley nothing,,, and when I am ready to settle down again with a girl for awhile, i can pick from one of these fun friends (who i all met with in the past 3 months) or someone completely different, and that is just the relationship area, wait till you start makin new friends, listin to music as lound as possible in the car, running for no reason, doing stupid crap like jumpin the local pool fence to swim @midnight with you buddies, when you have a pool in your backyard… i know, stupid but its the stuff i live for
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Why don’t you just wait for love for now. For right now it may be best to focus on your main goal of what you want to do later. Love can always wait.
Neutra wrote:
Why don’t you just wait for love for now. For right now it may be best to focus on your main goal of what you want to do later. Love can always wait.
I can, I know…
I just hate feeling like I have this hole in my heart…
it sucks.
Maybe relaxin is right, I need to go out and get drunk or somthing and start being more “spontanous”
I feel pathetic now. :-/
mjcatdo wrote:
Neutra wrote:
Why don’t you just wait for love for now. For right now it may be best to focus on your main goal of what you want to do later. Love can always wait.
I can, I know…
I just hate feeling like I have this hole in my heart…
it sucks.
Maybe relaxin is right, I need to go out and get drunk or somthing and start being more “spontanous”
I feel pathetic now. :-/
And feeling pathetic sucks
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Well, I kinda would suggest waiting for someone who you think is special as well as they think the same of you…
Till then I would suggest you kinda work on the things that you feel make you special so you can be all the more special to tat special someone…
Yeah! that feeling that makes you want to fill up that hole or tear it out, I would suggest you learn from it and use it as a source of strength to drive you towards your goals…
Thing is if you try filling it up too soon most probably youll rush into something you would regret later…
relaxin wrote:
mjcatdo wrote:
Neutra wrote:
Why don’t you just wait for love for now. For right now it may be best to focus on your main goal of what you want to do later. Love can always wait.
I can, I know…
I just hate feeling like I have this hole in my heart…
it sucks.
Maybe relaxin is right, I need to go out and get drunk or somthing and start being more “spontanous”
I feel pathetic now. :-/
And feeling pathetic sucks
I am usually a chill person, and I let things happen when they happen.
but I have just been so torn lately and I just dont like it.
so I feel pathetic because I have put this guard up around me saying I need someone to tell me “this or that” and I wont be happy…sorta
and then I feel pathetic, because I dont go out and do spontaneous stuff, maybe because I dont drive yet, and Ilive in the middle of a freakin forest.
idk…argh
jacobthelyn wrote:
Well, I kinda would suggest waiting for someone who you think is special as well as they think the same of you…Till then I would suggest you kinda work on the things that you feel make you special so you can be all the more special to tat special someone…Yeah! that feeling that makes you want to fill up that hole or tear it out, I would suggest you learn from it and use it as a source of strength to drive you towards your goals…Thing is if you try filling it up too soon most probably youll rush into something you would regret later…
I’ve been trying to use it as my drive for dance and drama or w.e…lol
I guess Ill see what will happen in time…:-/
Just take a stroll through the forest, it’s peaceful and may help you relax and clear your mind. Enjoy the sight.
This is what gets you building a real wall, walls are bad, if you protect yoursefl from things, then you will never get hurt, but youll never experince real fun… its do things and possibly get hurt, realize that was stupid and dont do it again, or never do it and wonder for a life time what it would have been like… carpei noctal (seize the night)… (so sorry for the latin gurus out there who realize i can spell, let alone speak in latin)
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mjcatdo wrote:
jacobthelyn wrote:
Well, I kinda would suggest waiting for someone who you think is special as well as they think the same of you…Till then I would suggest you kinda work on the things that you feel make you special so you can be all the more special to tat special someone…Yeah! that feeling that makes you want to fill up that hole or tear it out, I would suggest you learn from it and use it as a source of strength to drive you towards your goals…Thing is if you try filling it up too soon most probably youll rush into something you would regret later…
I’ve been trying to use it as my drive for dance and drama or w.e…lolI guess Ill see what will happen in time…:-/
I agree its a good thing that your channeling it and I have to say untill you find someone special that sickning empty feeling is always gonna be there, but you should youse caution before getting int anything
I guess you have to learn from it, take things slowly and enjoy every moment for itself… not whith the thoughts of something lost or of those of something that never will be.
eh, all I want to do is dance and act and write songs.
I’ve never had any urges to do anything too illegal or w.e
except for wanting to party it up harddcore…
but I never get invited to those parties..
and I do live with my parents whcihc make it harder…
i wish I was in college…lol.
Neutra: the sad thing about the forest is that there is a carving on the tree in the area where I can walk with my my ex’s and mine annaversery date…lol It’d prbably bother me…I can barely look up at the sky anymore because I know that he isnt looking at it back at me anymore. (something personal I wrote it a card)
but I write songs, which helps me keep my peace of mind.
and jacobthelyn: Idk if it will ever be or not…my ex said if it is true love, we’ll find eachother again…so idk, but I know I cant sit around and wait for him
so I am more concerned about other people…argh…which still isnt that good.
waiting around and doing nothing is the worst thing you can do, wait, sure, but dont just sit there, go find something to do, otherwise you have nothing, friends are the best at this,,, find true friends and hang with them, friends that will understand and not bring up other relationships, after awhile all the hurt and crap will go away, it dulls and fades
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You can have fun without going to parties if people don’t invite you, there’s got to be some other place you can go to have fun. If you want to help people then maybe you can use your songs to help them, sorry that’s all I can think of right now.
Yeah! I agree ur concerned about looking for someone else to fill the void, but thing is when you go looking for such things you overlook the things you should be looking at just because all you want is to feel special again, to have someone who cares about you, someone who makes you laugh and someone you can do the same for…
So, a suggestion would be is do the things you love, enjoy them and learn to excel in them, find someone whoe enjoys them as much as you and till you do keep at the things you love and try to be special in them for the one you hope to ifnd some day…
Yeah I know that sounds kinda like a fairy tale…
But without trying to achieve your dreams, one just fades into a background of many
relaxin wrote:
listin to music as lound as possible in the car, running for no reason, doing stupid crap like jumpin the local pool fence to swim @midnight with you buddies, when you have a pool in your backyard… i know, stupid but its the stuff i live for
Blastin’ the car stereo is good, especially when they are songs people are not very familiar with.
mjcatdo wrote:
I need to go out and get drunk or somthing and start being more “spontanous”
You joking, right? Not funny.
mjcatdo wrote:
I have been told that I am special, and that I have something unique, espcially for relationships, and he said it was my heart (considering this was my ex) and thats it. the only person to say something like that.
The next special someone will see beyond your looks and tell you that too.
You still in contact with the guy, mj?
lol. its ok.
thanks for the advice though…
I must say that I am not much of a partier, it just makes me feel like I have to be one because that is what “society” wants me to be.
and I am just a inncocent firl who wants to be on stage and express her feelings…but no one likes that me.
but I dont want to change…
but then I feel no onw will ever love me.
Neutra wrote:
You can have fun without going to parties if people don’t invite you, there’s got to be some other place you can go to have fun. If you want to help people then maybe you can use your songs to help them, sorry that’s all I can think of right now.
yes I am in contact with him.
we atleast talk once a week.
obviously not as much as we use to though. :(
mjcatdo wrote:
yes I am in contact with him.
You should cut. Its hurtful to you.
Joey_PR wrote:
mjcatdo wrote:
yes I am in contact with him.
You should cut. Its hurtful to you.
Kinda agree will help you move on more easily…
But its hard!
Well, I do make an effort to talk to him, accept for when I am rele rele bored online, andhe is on.
I am trying to make sure he is the one calling or messaging me.
but your right, it is hurting me, because he is treating me the oppisite way of how he wanted to treat me….
which makes no sense at all.
I mean a effort not to talk
Delete him (?)
He moved on as you already noticed.
You will be OK.
You know from what your saying I think your misenterpreting ehats going through his mind…
you better be careful bout that.
your still a kid.
enjoy being a kid.
It won’t last long.
Then you will be a deadly serious adult.
So “soak up the sun” while you can.
Joey_PR wrote:
Delete him (?)
*As in from the “contacts folder” or whatever you use to “see if he’s online”. Do something else when you are “rele rele bored”.
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