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have you tried talking to him on msn or somtin? somewhere where you have a screen as a medium. and in a situation like this rewuires a carefull choice of words

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Just let him know you’re there if he ever decides to talk about it. Maybe it was something embarrassing, or maybe she’s sick and he’s expressing his grief through anger.

Spend as much time as possible with your friend so that when he feels like opening up, you will be there to listen. He may wish to keep his problem to himself of a sense of family pride or loyalty. Remember to be supportive and be prepared to be discreet with personal information, if he does talk about it.

I’d recommend telling him he can come to you for support but you will not tolerate being kicked or anything of that nature. Let him know that you are there for him and then give him some space on the issue, don’t push it. If he wants to talk about it he will when he’s ready. These things can’t be forced although you are sweet in caring for him.

he kicked you and broke your thumb.?

You cannot force this person to tell all. I guess, the best thing to do is to remind him that you are just there for him.