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when you date a person that smokes and you tell them to quit…and they do, do they actually really quit?

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samarah_antoni offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

well can you taste or smell smoke when you kiss him…if not then yes.
But is very hard to quit.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Woh!
you managed to get someone to stop by just telling them…
Ill tell you it normally requires much much more…

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 247 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

As with all things it depends on the person. Is there a reason why you would think they were being dishonest?

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3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

well, he lied to me a couple of times when he was at my friends party..my friends saw him smoking

also whenever i pointed out some 8th graders smoking..he would be like oh yea! smoking is bad…but he lied…and all

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

If it is weed hell no. Anything else maybe.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (58 minutes after post)

He dosent want to quit…( its very tought to do so, you need people who care bout you and are willing to support you constructively to quit)
And if hes lying to you about smoking, hes gonna lie about other things…
Be careful!

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