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i would look into calling mental health. they can refer to you places that do free counseling.

as for the job thing… keep looking.. something will happen for ya sooner or later..

as for friends.. that is what friends are for.. as long as you are there when they need you… then lean on them when you need them… that is what friends are for…

Im not sure if you’re male or female, if male I can see you’re getting depressed or already there. Take one step at a time and try to keep calm, drink wont help it will only worsen the situation, you need money to buy drink and right now you have other priorities. Id hold off the wedding until you get yourself a job, this is going to add to the pressure, if you are male the thought of a certain amount of dependency from another human being will add to your troubled state.
If you’re in the usa I can empathize about the job situation, my daughter has sent in untold resumes and received nothing back at all. All you can do is keep calling and make a pain of yourself, my husband got a job just because he kept calling, they said they knew he wanted to work because he was so persistent. I dont agree with this method but whatever works right ? Have faith in yourself and dont give up.

Hello, i know this was just a rant, but pls don’t give up.

Keep sending those resume. Let someone check it for you, there might be stuff that you missed. Good luck!

Take a job you don’t like to pay the bills, and keep looking. Be persistent and make phone calls. A resume is great, but unless you’re sending out dozens of them don’t expect any immediate responses. Managers have lots of applicants. You need to make connections with people in your field who can give you an introduction or good recommendation. What was your major? What kind of career job are you looking for?

Don’t feel that you’ve “used up” all the compassion your friends can give. If they’re good friends, they’ll understand how stressful and upsetting this month has been. If you still feel like you’re taking advantage, simply thank them for what they’ve done. It lets them know that while you really need them, you understand that they’re giving of themselves for you and you appreciate it.

Can your fiance stay with you and help you out?

You can also try your luck at online charities like Digital Charity, people may send donations if your story is convincing enough. More information at http://www.laodn.org/

Hang in there!!! Last year a month after I started college I got food poisoning and went to the hospital. While they were treating me for the food poisoning they decided that I had appendicitis. While I was in the hospital I contracted a nasty respiratory virus. I had planned on finding a job once I started school, but no one would hire me because I couldn’t lift anything for a while and my school schedule was difficult to work around.I had a huge debt to the hospital and my anxiety disorder came back with a vengence. Then my mom told me that everyone has medical bills and not to worry. I won’t lie, it’s been a year and I still worry about the bills that I just can’t pay. However, bad credit can only last so long. People are voluntarily giving up their houses and wrecking their credit because they know that it will eventually go away. You will eventually get a job back and things will begin to straighten out :) [if not you can be sued by the hospital with me ;) ]