friends help: how do you tell your best friend that her fiance is a cheater? - Help.com

that’s a very hard question. it really depends on your best friend, her relationship with you, and her relationship with her fiance.

it is a tough thing to do.. but seriously… before they get married she should know the truth.. i would actually try to get evidence of it before you tell her.. that way she wont think that you are trying to just break them up…

no he won’t. unfortunately, my friend was the one cheating on her fiance. i wanted to tell him so badly. she promised she would stop, but she never did.

i told his best friends the week before the wedding because i was too chicken to tell him. it didn’t matter. he married her and she broke his heart. she had a baby by some other guy while they were married.

enigma2 wrote:
evidence i have is he hit on me… but honestly, im her only friend and she has no one but him. i feel like i would absolutely crush her world.

yeah but… what if he goes out and catches an std or even aids… aids is not curable… how would you feel if this happened? you would be wishing that you spoke up..

pay a professional to get some ‘real’ proof and pay another professional (anonymously) to get that proof to her. simple and clean, wouldn’t you say?

Damned if you do damed if you don’t , tell her and she may thanks you …..or curse you and say your being just nasty…..don’t tell her and she finds out …..and that you already knew and she will curse you……

straightly…

If she is really your friend, you do what is best for her without regard to your relationship with her afterwards. If you think her heart will be crushed now, just wait until she marries the guy and gets a call from another woman who is pregnant by him. BAD NEWS DOES NOT GET BETTER WITH AGE!