My friend is with the wrong guy.
Okay…so my friend is going out with a guy called Steve. They’ve been going out for about 3 months. Way back in April, her best friend Matthew asked her to his formal, before she was going out with Steve, right? Anyway, they’re going just as friends, and my friend told her boyfriend about it last week. He started getting really angry at her, yelling at her and calling her selfish and stuff like that.
But there’s more. She’s liked Matt for a really long time, and while she likes her boyfriend heaps she really wants to be with this other guy, who cares so much more about her. He likes her too, but she didn’t tell him that she was going out with Steve and when Matt saw them together he was really hurt that she hadn’t told him and all. He really cares. Like last weekend, it was her birthday. Matthew called her and they talked for about an hour, but Steve, her boyfriend, only sent her a text message.
What do you think I should do to help her, as she’s feeling really hurt? Or should I just butt out of it all together?
Sorry if this is really confusing.
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My friend is with the wrong guy.
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My friend is with the wrong guy.
Okay…so my friend is going out with a guy called Steve. They’ve been going out for about 3 months. Way back in April, her best friend Matthew asked her to his formal, before she was going out with Steve, right? Anyway, they’re going just as friends, and my friend told her boyfriend about it last week. He started getting really angry at her, yelling at her and calling her selfish and stuff like that.
But there’s more. She’s liked Matt for a really long time, and while she likes her boyfriend heaps she really wants to be with this other guy, who cares so much more about her. He likes her too, but she didn’t tell him that she was going out with Steve and when Matt saw them together he was really hurt that she hadn’t told him and all. He really cares. Like last weekend, it was her birthday. Matthew called her and they talked for about an hour, but Syeve, her boyfriend, only sent her a text message.
What do you think I should do to help her, as she’s feeling really hurt? Or should I just butt out of it all together?
Sorry if this is really confusing.
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