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:( Sorry you feel like this, maybe you should see a doctor?

It is very normal

Well… how old are you? To be fair, all teenagers do go through crazy hormones.. I’m 18, and I remember it well.

All I can say is that it is only psychological. Probably, nothing is really going wrong, but your homones are telling you that everything is collapsing, and once you accept and realise this, things will start getting/feeling better.

Yea, I feel like that too sometimes.

There is NOTHING fun about solitude and despite the negative things people may say about desiring attention, man is by nature a gregarious animal and as such NEEDS companionship. We are hard-wired for it. The key is not to let yourself get into a tail spin of negative emotions.

If you see yourself falling into a rut, go for a run or work out in some fashion. that won’t eradicate the feelings from your life, but temporarily, you’ll feel better. I’ve had to learn not to compare myself with others. The truth is that there are people out there who are naturally gifted socially. The rest of us, whether by design or default, do not possess those same skills. As nutty as it sounds, and I’m still working on this one, being happy with yourself is the key. You have to be able to be yourself and at the same time not care if some people don’t like you. Remember, you shouldn’t try to please people into liking you by being something your not. After all, don’t you want the people who end up befriending or falling in love with you to have those feelings for who you really are? I know I do.

A definite thing to do, if you don’t already is work out on a regular basis. the runner’s high alone will make you a happier person. Also, if you look physically better, you will be happier mentally. Despite what people may say about looks not mattering, the sad fact is they do, to an extent. As humans, we may be capable of more compassionate ways of finding someone attracitve, we’re still just as shallow as lesser animals when it comes to looks.

Everyone goes through a period in their life, or several periods where they feel disaffected. Given your age, you may be having the ever ciche ‘mid-life crisis’ Talking to a psychiatris or psychologist wouldn’t be a bad idea either. Doing so helps…I know.

So, that’s what I have to say and hopefully haven’t burdened you with words. Take care and keep your chin up because confidence, so I’m told, is ESSENTIAL

Its also a great idea to see if u can start to like the feeling of being alone with none to help u.. Because it makes u strong when u realise u can handle the situations alone and not always need help.

.. Not telling u to become some outcast.. But sometimes u have to do things on ur own

i know how u feel!!i feel the same thing too…like i would tell them that im ok but im not..u just need someone to talk to…

Hi. I feel your pain. Sometimes, it feels like the world turned its back against you and there rest of the people did too. Feeling alone isn’t a nice feeling most of the times.

Having friends might work. Talking to someone about problems would make you feel that someone’s on your side. Then you wouldn’t feel alone. You could try that. Choose your friends wisely.

I hope you’ll find someone who can help you. Maybe that someone needs you too.

Smile for the world. Everything’s much brighter when you do.

Paypay_1: Sorry about your situation : ( But in part, I think your doing the right thing on the outside! Thats what I do too. Inner demon suck, wish I had and answer for you but can only relate from my experience. I mean looking at other’s answers, find a friend, go see a doctor (unless they are good), or Jesus; deffinatly not written by people whom have really been here. Phuckit had a good idea, yeah maybe not running but doing something else, I gotta a good job (or did things alone) which I like a lot and it gets me through the days. Nites and weekend are another problem. If your young, time may find an answer, no garuntees. Funny, we really don’t know how our lives affect others, though. I mean, I’ve lived my adult life without human companionship or love. But through my lifes journey, I have at least improved other peoples lifes. Never though I’d have that effect. I’ve hooked people up, gotten them carrers, showed them really cool experience. But yeah, had to detach myself from thinking I’d be accepted/wanted by others. Guess, I just am an outsider and live life through there eyes. Guess, thats where I find joy in life and recognize that there is beauty all around me. Slow deep breaths. In the end, know one will help, unless your lucky. And feeling numb is part of it. But helping others, for me, has been a percious thing. Box of choclates…