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Stop picking girls that just care about your looks and money.

don’t let on that you have money!

Poe, good answer…..loll..would LOTS of people love to have his problem!

Yes Anon, another good answer…

Look at where you are meeting girls and you can get an idea of the type of women you are attracting. You are a part time model ( I am not putting down models) but it can be a false world their… based on looks.. so some of the girls you may meet in those circles may not be the best for you.

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good answers poe!

I am just saying… like people who want to find the love of their life… I know someone like that. And what does he do… goes clubbing all the time and hooks up with whoever he can then complains and wonders why he is alone. ( Once again not saying all people who go to clubs are bad , lol) But chances are your future wife or husband is not going to be grinding on the dance floor at your first encounter.. it is probably going to be some random moment when you both are “who you really are” and not the “girl posing for a shoot” or “dancing with her gf’s” - get my point… in given situations.. for better or worse.. we adapt.. you just need to find someone, who is not influenced by anything other than themselves at the moment of your meeting. Only way someone will see you for who you are and not for the hot guy modeling or the guy in the nice clothes trying to impress. Hope it helped some.

Thanks jaimie :)

I am in no way putting down models.. hence the reason I inserted the ( )- I try to make sure I let people know my intentions when I respond and make sure to point out that I am not trying to offend anyone.

Don’t see where you were offensive at all Poe…totally agree!

Perhaps you just need to project onto others what you want then; some women, like anyone else could take things the wrong way and judge you based on your looks or money. Let people know off the bat what you are looking for and that there is more to you than what meets the eye or wallet. These women may just be getting a wrong impression of what you are looking for- so when push comes to shove, be blunt and honest.

This is tough. It can be hard to find someone who actually likes you for who you are personality wise and not based on your looks or bank account statement.
But they’re out there.
Don’t be judgmental about people. Obviously, I’m not sure if you are or aren’t but you shouldn’t judge a person just by what you see.
I know someone who had an issue similar to this. His real problem was he was being just as shallow as the girls he dated. He was giving them no chance at all for silly reasons.

thanks spunky for the support :)

Yes, your response was very sincere. Actually, not sure about this situation. Leave it at that..have a good day Poe!

:) Later Spunk

Don’t give up on us girls.
Maybe since you are a part-time model… you might have a full time job? Just tell her that is what you do.
Don’t let the girl know that you are a model for awhile.
(Until you think it might work out.)
Ask more about her upfront and tell her other things about you besides your job and money.
Your job and your wallet are NOT what defines you… so tell her WHO YOU ARE…
If you are meeting the wrong girls where you go… go somewhere else.

mera