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i’ve been having such a hard time with my break up of 2 months now with my ex-boyfriend.

he did drugs and i didn’t and he saw that as a threat to his “fun” lifestyle. we live on the same block and now he passes by and acts like he’s loving life and it hurts me so bad because we ended very ugly. he shows no signs of missing me or not even an im sorry call since then and he hurt and betrayed and all i was was loving, caring and helpful to him. i feel like i’m alone and he just has fun and i don’t know how that works? i wish he’d approach me to talk, but he hasn’t and i don’t wanna break, but he owes me such an apology and i wish i’d get it.

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jcd offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Don’t hold your breath for that apology. He sounds like a very selfish person and I doubt you’ll ever get one. You’re better off without him.

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rememberpoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah i would just move one… clearly. why would you want to be with someone like that?

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Seems to me he probably doesn’t feel like he owes you an apology. So yeah, what JCD said, don’t hold your breath

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