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i dont no y but im jst feeling really low at the moment..i

think it may be beacause i was away all summer and missed out on everything with my frends … i love my boyfrend alot but our relationship somtimes seems really one sided on the effort front … i jst care bout him so much, weve bin together for a year and a half now … im really unhappy with my body, i dont offten look at my body but sun bathing made me notice how hairy i am and its making me so inscure … where r girls ment to and not ment to have hair btw??

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Aww I can relate!!
Where did you go for the summer?

And the whole body hair issue, it’s like the whole hormone factor that makes hair more prevalent in males than females or certain people more than others. I’m sure if Phuckit were to respond here, you’d learn more about this!
But I mean I’ve got hairier arms than most girls should. And sometimes in my youth I questioned why it was like that. But really, it just is. I’ve felt insecure about my body many of times and I still do sometimes. Really, though sooner or later you’re going to have to learn to accept yourself as you are.

I mean, it would be sexist to say where women aren’t supposed to have body hair. We are who we are.

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logistic offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I know that it is always tough going away for the summer, but Im sure you didnt miss as much as you think. About the hair, your body hair is a natural thing. Many people find it to be beautiful. There is nothing wrong with having body hair, but if it makes you feel badly then try waxing it. The great this about that is if you dont like the waxed feel, it’ll just grow right back! :)

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music_luver_sm offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

wow. I can totally relate. I’ve been away from my friends all summer toooo. I go to a boarding school and half of my friendS are in different countries. :P You miss them, but it’s okay. I read a quote somewhere that said “Best friends aren’t about being inseperable, it’s about being separated and nothing changes.”

about the whole hair thing? uhm. don’t worry about it. tons of girls have more prominent features than others. There’s no specific place you’re definately supposed to have hair in and definately not supposed to have hair in. we’re mammals. we have hair. You just have to get over it and focus on the things that really matter, like, what you’ll do next summer. ;)

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neku offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

You can get your hair removed if it worries you. Plucking (tweezing), Shaving, Depilatory creams and Waxing are temporary hair removal methods. Waxing usually lasts for 3 weeks, but it is painful. Electrolysis and laser hair removal are “permanent” hair removal methods but are expensive and you have to find a trained professional, otherwise your skin could be damaged. A review of the various hair removal methods is available at http://www.hairremoval.in

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