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I don’t think things are ever going to change.

Every path I take, everything I do, doesn’t help or makes things worse. Always make mistakes and fail and make my self a worse person. I’m making a dead line, if by the age of 30 (in 10 years) I make no progress am still alone and depressed, I’m leaving this world.

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dotspot offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

My deadline is 2013.

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rememberpoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Clearly something else is wrong here. If you still think this way in ten years.. it won’t matter what kind of job you have, or what kind of relationships you have… because if you keep thinking like that… nothing will ever meet the cut.

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Dub420 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

know how you feel, the more I try to improve my life the worse it gets.

college for example, I went, I graduated, then found out I went to a scam school and pretty much lost 30k for nothing.

I got a deadline to, but im not sure if itll be as long as 10 years heh, maybe 3-5

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cathmai offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

well i do know something that will make a difference - i did a weekend course 12 years ago called the landmark forum (www.landmarkeducation.com), where i got to see how i could change things and be effective in all sorts of aspects of life, learnt some great stuff, really glad i did it.

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Sigurrós offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

You’ll make progress, you’ll gain wisdom, 10 years is a long time and there is so much in the future that we can not predict.

You don’t make yourself a worse person when you fail or make mistakes, it’ll take time to see that but you can/will learn and grow. You say you’re depressed; what have you tried so far?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Multiple things for multiple problems. Trying to make friends, i’ve gone to places talked and approached people acted happy, acted serious, eye contact smile talk about them nothing works no one likes me, then for jobs I lied on resumes was honest took extra training many people have helped me in this site with resumes so I even just stooped down to fliping burgers and I can’t even get a job doing that. Im just cursed

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

i know how you feel.
i hate having to put on facades all the time, smiling and acting happy when deep down I just want to curl up in a ball and cry.

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