infant help: im 14 and want this baby itolled my aunt now she hates me - Help.com

umm, are you saying ur pregnant or you want someone else’s baby?

Do you know what your getting yourself into? Babies are not what you want at your age. You will ruin your life!

You’re pregnant at 14?
I told my 20 year old friend she wasn’t ready for a child.
You have to think logically, you’re 14, you’re going to have to leave school and redo your grades, where are you going to get the money to raise this child.
do you honestly think this is in the best interest for the child?
You can’t expect others to take care of (her or him) for you, you will have to find a way to make money and everything.
Just remember, that for even 25 year olds having a kid is a lot of trouble.
Take time to enjoy teenage life and later on, when you are settled, then think about having a kid.

??? minutes ago???? and im pregant

She is 1 month pregnant, the father is 17, almost 18. She wants to keep the baby. She also said this:

“the father wont b there i tolled him he says it aint his but it is!”

Here is the last thing I said in your previous post:

“Everything aside, having a baby at your age is a bad thing. You need to learn how to live before you teach someone else how to. By your spelling I can tell you are not very educated. Education is very important, and if you have this baby it will seriously mess up your life. If you can have an abortion, I really think you should have one. Why keep it? For religious reasons? Because people are telling you what to do? Or just because you want to? Well, at 14, you really don’t know whats best for yourself, let me tell you. I hope there are wise people in your life that you can console about this. This might come off as harsh, but in my opinion, thats what you need.”

uh

i tollded you so. Don’t have this baby

uh……..

im twin

yes

Yes.

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Prime for the challenges of parenthood.

my 14 dont no what 2 do and ur calling me dum

lol

well twin, think about it. you are definitely not ready to help a child in this world.
Do the right thing

Please tell us why you want to, or why you think you should have this baby. Why can’t it wait? 24 or 34 are much better ages. There is no reason you need to have it now.

Have an abortion, learn your lesson & keep away from boys, and stay in school. That’s my advice.

ok

i wasnt going 2 ve a abortion any way thats messed up

uh u sould no

im just saying im not rude and wont not ve my kids b rude

think…is that good for the baby? With a 14 years old mother, a young girl that isn’t will educated yet, when the baby is 10, when you go to the baby’s school meeting, people might wonder something about you and the child’s background.
Maybe, you could do something similar to the movie JUNO, let somebody who’s nice to has the baby

uhhhhhhh

If you don’t agree with abortion, find a family to adopt.
It’s just you need to realize you aren’t ready for a kid.
And too diepali, and sarah_galinde, you guys are being stupid and rude.
She’s here to ask for help, not to be called names and being insulted…

im in high school!!!!!!!!!!!

High school is the toughest time in school, I graduated last year, I remember how it is
You have to trust me on this, I’ve been living in the outside of school world this last year and it’s a lot harder then it seems.
Imagine going through learning to live for yourself and for a child at the same time, it would be overwhelming and almost impossible to do on your own.
Think about this..

straight

uhhhhh

?????? what ur u talkin about

Ok first off, I did read the whole thing
the only rude part was

twin196 wrote:
uh u sould no

And there is nothing wrong with what she said… at all
You guys are being rude about things.
And I’m not telling her what to do, I’m suggesting. It’s definitely not the same thing
And this site is exactly for this purpose, for all sorts of problems, if you don’t have any advice, or you don’t think its something she should ask here, then why are you replying to this post?

something

yea?!!!

i no

ok……….

lol i know that, i was being sarcastic, lol

i am just bored.

and i looked up strait and it means a narrow passage of water, a position of difficulty, narrow and strict.

well, i still learned a new word…lol