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ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and i recently met a guy who lives 2 hours away we’ve only talked on the internet and texted etc. weve met at the place where i work a couple times and had nice chats. so now im wicked attracted to him and he feels the same (he told me). my relationship with my boyfriend is good but just not as exciting as it used to be when we started dating and its now just kind of routine. and me and this new guy have crazy chemistry. im sure this new guy isnt as fantastic as i think because ive made him into an absolute god in my mind. but there is some serious chemestry there. anyways i was wondering if its just a “thrill in the chase” thing or if i should see where this new guy takes me.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

errrr, dont be a *****, either dump ur boyfriend or stay with him, u cnt have them both.

Youll end up lonely if you dont do the right thing, think about how ur boyfriend would feel, hurrendous all because of you and your stupid ;thrill;

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

If you think you have some sort of chemistry with this guy then go for it..when you’re not married just collent and collect..then wait till you can select..but don’t be stupid if ever something goes wrong cuz’ you’ll know who’s done it..

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

If you do i hope you feel terrible for your boyfriend, and theres loads of people u have chemistry with, doesnt mean u dump ur boyfriend for them,once a cheat always a cheat

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

qwll its time you choose, here or now, the old bf or this new guy
you dont want word getting to the other u have been seeing anothe guy, thatll make them both hate you. why not take u and ur current bf out somwhere and enjoy yourself, go on like a vacation, see if he has lost his spark or if its jus hiding, then decide which one you like and wanna be with

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