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I need someone’s help, please tell me what to do, i’m having a depression every single day, and over small or big reasons.

For ex. i feel very lonely like nobody cares about me, than the guy i like seems he doesnt care bout me at all and then i dont hav money and i can’t find a job, i’m fighting wit my parents everyday, and i dont hav a self esteem, lotz of things, help me, i cant take it anymore, i can’t find sense to live this life if everyday is just the same, and if my mood is like that, i wanna die

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angel♥ offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 782 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

awwh im sorry youre having such a rough time! how old are you?
it may not seem like it but there are soooo many people who love you and care about you! are you fighting with your parents over one thing in particular, or everything?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I feel the same way, I lost my job and can’t find another one in this pathetic little town I live in, but don’t have a car so I can’t drive someplace new to look for a job and a decent bf. I feel like a fool for having crushes for guys over and over again and they never notice me in the end. And I haven’t heard from my friends in a long time either.

So no matter what your going through just remeber your not alone and there are others out there who have rougher things to deal with too.

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R.A.M offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

You know,
What youve just said is very dramatic…
Well everyone here seems to be giving you worthwhile advice from different perspectives…
Thing is you have to look at the positives!
There will always be negative things happening in your life and sometimes they seem to come all at once…
Its best to take them as an oppurtunity to strengthen yourself and therefore in the future be able to deal with such adversities in a better way.(life rarely gets easier)
Try to be more forthcoming with those who care bout you, at times they seem to not be able to understand you, but that happens to everyone…
I guess its just a bit of patience and understanding on your part as well…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i’m 16, with parents i fight almost in everything, but the worst i always listen to them, and in my ages i only had one bf, when my friends had 100 of them, well datz not relly a problem i know pple hav much worse problems then that, but how about i dont relly have friends at skul, and when a lot of students think i’m a looser, it hurts,well cuz i’m probablly very shy, and quiet so i’m getting depression over everythin, small, or big, pple think sometimes i’ve got no style, i just dont hav money, my parents are poor. But i want to change myself very badly, but its the hardest thing ever, well it makes me feel better if i’m not the only one like that

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Regarding your self esteem,
Why not try spending more time on doing the things you love rather than those that other people think you should or those that other people will like…
Thing is when you do the things you love, your having a good time doing it as well as your getting better at it and if your passionate enough you will excel at it (self esteem boost)

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neku offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Worrying is a bad habit, you need to overcome it like any other bad habit. Try to modify the factors under your control, that is the only thing you can do. From http://mshn.org/worry.html

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