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Okay, so there’s this really hot guy in my new class…

I like him soooo much I don’t know if he knows it yet.. But he’s kind of a dork, I don’t care I like the dorky type

But I have a fear of rejection and I’m like scared…
Can any guys tell me how I might be able to get him to like me or notice me? Thanks!

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Deąth offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 61 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

like…how dorky?

i think you should get to know him like see if he has something you have (like aim or yahoo something like that) and talk to him there

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MJF offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

bridgetmcmll wrote:
Verrry dorky.. He’s like major dork..

Glasses, bad clothes, messed up hair, all that.. And the “every question correct” type.. I like that, but he might like the popular girls that’ll hurt his feelings..

True but I don’t think he does.. He might not know what it is

Speaking as a major dork in school - go for it!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

If hes good with studies…
Ask him to help you with yours… Like a study group or something…
The main thing is to express interest in the activities he likes and a want to do them…
Then try and get him to do them with you…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Hey!
All the best…
Take things at a stead pace… dont rush it or be too slow…
Just do what feels right, dont do anything that seems wrong or uncomfortable!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

steady* pace

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MJF offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

bridgetmcmll wrote:
Thanks MJF, I want to but I’m shy as can be lol.. I want to but I don’t think I can

R.A.M, I was going to ask him to tutor me like in the morning or something in math and it would bring me closer to him.. I think lol.. I’m gonna take that advice though

He’s a bit nerdy and shy? Trust me - get to know him then ask him out. You’ll make his year….

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Would just like to say..
Becareful of asking him out…
You may just push him away. If hes shy that is a possibility as he would feel uneasy and not understand why you r doing what u are…
Its best to get a little familiar with him before asking him out…
Ur welcome…

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