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What can i do to stop being so argumentative?

I keep picking fights with the people I love as I am frustrated with my life right now. So basically I’m pushin gthem away when i need them most. I try to stop, but i just seem to have the shortest temper right now and a snap at them, or just argue about the silliest things. I hate myself for being like this, but can’t seem to stop.

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kmountain21 offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Try to talk to someone about what it is exactly that is bothering you. People deal with their emotions in many way. It sounds like you are dealing with yours in solitude and anger. Talk to someone you trust. Your best friend, your mom. Anyone. I found that talking to a family counsler was really helpful because it was a complete stranger and i learned quite a bit. GOOD LUCK and just opend up and find the real issue :)

ps- sometimes all it takes is a deep breath and a smile too.

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