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How would your ideal partner look like? What are characteristics of your ideal partner? Is your ideal person a movie star? Or is a combination of various moviestars?
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Imagine… What would your ideal partner would look like? Whose characteristics? Whose body? Whose way to think? Just think? Is your ideal person a movie star? Or is a combination of various moviestars?
Hey!
Thats not a question to ask…
It should be what are the characteristics of your ideal partner…
Remember looks are mainly superficial!
Their characteristics and mannerisims is what speaks in the end,
If they compliment yours… then youve got your match!
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Imagine… How would your ideal partner look like? Whose characteristics? Whose body? Whose way to think? Just think? Is your ideal person a movie star? Or is a combination of various moviestars?
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Imagine… How would your ideal partner look like? Whose characteristics would the person have? Whose body? Whose way to think? Just think? Is your ideal person a movie star? Or is a combination of various moviestars?
someone honest, loving, caring, and loves me as much as i love him! a good ol MAN!, someone that will stand up for what they believe in. Know him self and know what he wants in life and wants to share his goals and dreams with me.
What caughts my eye is a TALL, someone with a beard, blue eyes, and mostly cowboy boys and a cowboy hat…..But I have come to know that I’ll be ALONE for the rest of my life. I can’t seem to trust men or love them - if they get to close i do something to mess it up!!!
oh man…now you’re gonna get a two page essay on my ideal man, you know that, right?? lol
had to do some digging around…this is what I said to my big sister when she asked me basically the same question:
“I like manly men. I mean real manly men….and there’s more to that than most people think. Being a manly man doesn’t neccesarily mean that he has to have big ol’ muscles (though they are desired ^_^) and go around fighting everybody (though fighting is kinda sexy….at least it is when it’s protecting a girl and such ^_^), but it also means that he doesn’t sit around and play video games and watch tv all day everyday. It means that he isn’t afraid to get down and dirty and do some manual labor. The most sexy body style for me? Rough, calloused hands and naturally-built muscles. oooooh man, that is so freakishly sexy I can’t even explain! lol
While I do go for the manly-man type, I also enjoy the sensitive side. I don’t mean sensitive to the point where he seems gay (remember…I like MANLY men lol), but it is extremely attractive for a guy to want to protect his girl. The thing I want most in a guy is for him to want to protect me and hold me, and I can jsut be in his arms, feeling safe…and loved.
I want a guy with personality. That means that he jsut can’t be shy…while shy is cute, it’s not very attractive to me….I need him to be able to be jsut as crazy as me. I definately like clever guys, and guys who I can just talk to and never feel like I’m being judged.
Music. Music is the FASTEST way possible to get to my heart lol If he can sing or play the piaon or cello (or realy any strings), he’s got my heart already (at least while he’s singing/playing). especially if he puts his heart into it *closes eyes* that is, like I said, the NUMBER ONEway to get me to instantly fall in love lol ^_^
Of course, good looks are a definate plus ^_^
I love love LOVE dark hair and light blue eyes. OMG I can’t even tell you how amazingly attractive that is to me! But, for some strange reason, all the guys I’ve had crushes on have had dark hair, and all the guys I’ve actually liked have had blonde. strange, isn’t it?
Oh man…a lot of accents are extremely sexy! haha maybe I should marry a jamaican! I love jamaican accents ^_^ (haha jamaican accents aren’t exactly “sexy”, though lol)”
and, if you care, here’s what my big sister likes in guys:
“a lot of girls pretty much just like boys that will pay attention to them. they aren’t particularly picky as long as they have someone who will spend time and money on them and who will make them feel special and protected. all of that is nice, but i’m a little more selective in the first place. i don’t date people so i can feel better about myself, i date people so we can make each other better people.
that being said, here are a few of the things that attract me the most.
i like athletic boys. they don’t have to be amazing at whatever it is they do, i just like the mindset of athletes. maybe it’s because athletes are generally competitive, maybe it’s because they’re constantly working toward something, maybe it’s just because it gives us something in common. either way, i like athletes. (i don’t mind athletic bodies either =] heh)
i like guys that i respect. there are a lot of potentially respectable things, but i especially look for guys with a passion for something (whatever it may be) and guys that work for things and have goals in life. i guess i respect people who respect themselves (and the people around them).
intelligence is a HUGE plus. i don’t need an einstein and i don’t particularly like nerds, but nothing attracts me like a few clever comments here and there. i’m a sarcastic person and i love people with similar senses of humor.
i’m not really into the whole bad-boy thing. every now and then it’s intriguing, but i’ll stick with the good guys.
my mom has pointed out that i need a guy with a lot of personality or i’ll pretty much just run him over. she’s right. i come off sort of quiet sometimes, but i’m a strong person with a lot of personality, opinions, and ambitions. i don’t like push-overs at all.
hmmm i like guys with good taste. and style. =]
i want to be able to be comfortable around the guys i like. i want to be able to have meaningful conversations or to just sit around and do nothing. i like to know that i don’t have to worry about how i look, but i also love dressing up because i’m excited to see a guy.
i like muscles! ^_^ ”
Woh!
will takle me some time to read all of this…
course, I have no clue if that’s even close what other girls want, it’s just what I want. and what my sister wants lol
R.A.M wrote:
Woh!will takle me some time to read all of this…
well if yer a boy and wanna make a move on me, it’ll be a good investment! lol
Well i dont think im that attractive, but im sure athletic, most girls like my accent i aint got a muscular body, but im working it lol. I do my best to make girls happy. I am a shy person, but when the situation calls it, i can be pretty wild. lol
and how old are you?
lol I was gonna say “sweet! hellllllooooo!” but first gotta know if you’re a young’n
Lady Hastanonymous wrote:
R.A.M wrote:well if yer a boy and wanna make a move on me, it’ll be a good investment! lol
Woh!will takle me some time to read all of this…
Hmmm!
I guess the blue eyes kick me outta the picture thoug…
Well for maly.. rock climbing and layacking are somethngs I do quite often…
For intellectual an elcectrical engg by professin…
do I grab ur interest
LOL!
Yes I am im 18 years old even though some people say i act like a little kid. i detest when they say i need to grow up. Grow up? Why would I want to do that? Even though Im in college, I love having FUN! i act my age when i have to, but for the most part its just about fun fun fun. I want to live! to travel to enjoy. I wasnt born to always be staring at books, or being in an office all day. I was born to travel the world to discover to enjoy to have FUN!!!!!!!
R.A.M wrote:
Lady Hastanonymous wrote:Hmmm!I guess the blue eyes kick me outta the picture thoug…Well for maly.. rock climbing and layacking are somethngs I do quite often…For intellectual an elcectrical engg by professin…do I grab ur interest LOL!
R.A.M wrote:well if yer a boy and wanna make a move on me, it’ll be a good investment! lol
Woh!will takle me some time to read all of this…
answer the age question! lol
by the way, I’ve seen beautiful eyes of all colors! I used to like a guy with light brown eyes and his eyes were GORGEOUS! and I know a few people with various shades of beautiful brown eyes, AND I know people with beautiful green eyes….heck, I even know a guy with beautiful gold eyes!
Chivas wrote:
Yes I am im 18 years old even though some people say i act like a little kid. i detest when they say i need to grow up. Grow up? Why would I want to do that? Even though Im in college, I love having FUN! i act my age when i have to, but for the most part its just about fun fun fun. I want to live! to travel to enjoy. I wasnt born to always be staring at books, or being in an office all day. I was born to travel the world to discover to enjoy to have FUN!!!!!!!
18? I’m yours! ^_^
well…I would be….if my heart wasn’t already taken! maybe later! lol
Well!
age…
guess 25 is too old for u!
Sorry sweetie!
Hasta Iguana! ^_^ wrote:
Chivas wrote:18? I’m yours! ^_^well…I would be….if my heart wasn’t already taken! maybe later! lol
Yes I am im 18 years old even though some people say i act like a little kid. i detest when they say i need to grow up. Grow up? Why would I want to do that? Even though Im in college, I love having FUN! i act my age when i have to, but for the most part its just about fun fun fun. I want to live! to travel to enjoy. I wasnt born to always be staring at books, or being in an office all day. I was born to travel the world to discover to enjoy to have FUN!!!!!!!
lol k i guess
R.A.M wrote:
Well!age…guess 25 is too old for u!Sorry sweetie!
haha yeah I think it is
course my dad was 29 when he got married to my mom who was 19. if we were going by that standard then you’d be 2 years too young! lulz
aaaand my sister’s almost 19 with a 24 year old boyfriend lol
but I don’t think I’ll follow in those footsteps, sorry man! ;)
Hey!
No prob!
But when it comes to dating, prefer spending more time on the personality and their compatibility with me…
Mainly a person who I can do everything I like with, and vice versa…
Chivas wrote:
Hasta Iguana! ^_^ wrote:
Chivas wrote:18? I’m yours! ^_^well…I would be….if my heart wasn’t already taken! maybe later! lol
Yes I am im 18 years old even though some people say i act like a little kid. i detest when they say i need to grow up. Grow up? Why would I want to do that? Even though Im in college, I love having FUN! i act my age when i have to, but for the most part its just about fun fun fun. I want to live! to travel to enjoy. I wasnt born to always be staring at books, or being in an office all day. I was born to travel the world to discover to enjoy to have FUN!!!!!!!lol k i guess
ah well, I prolly would’ve said no, anyway…I’m not a big fan of internet relationships. My cousin was raped when she was 11 thanks to that…..
not to mention the various other difficulties that come with such a relationship! but at least now you know a couple of girls opinions and have a little more insight into what we like/dislike
Hasta Iguana! ^_^ wrote:
Chivas wrote:ah well, I prolly would’ve said no, anyway…I’m not a big fan of internet relationships. My cousin was raped when she was 11 thanks to that…..not to mention the various other difficulties that come with such a relationship! but at least now you know a couple of girls opinions and have a little more insight into what we like/dislike
Hasta Iguana! ^_^ wrote:lol k i guess
Chivas wrote:18? I’m yours! ^_^well…I would be….if my heart wasn’t already taken! maybe later! lol
Yes I am im 18 years old even though some people say i act like a little kid. i detest when they say i need to grow up. Grow up? Why would I want to do that? Even though Im in college, I love having FUN! i act my age when i have to, but for the most part its just about fun fun fun. I want to live! to travel to enjoy. I wasnt born to always be staring at books, or being in an office all day. I was born to travel the world to discover to enjoy to have FUN!!!!!!!
yeah i know it was a no and yeap thats so true! 0_0
Realy sad to hear about your cousin…
Wish things werent like that!
I just want someone who is honest genuine and is real, who will love me for me and thinks like me.
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