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im stuck on what to do with an ex best friend.

her and i have been best friends for 4 years and since May we got to this point were we just go our both ways.other people looked up to us. we were so close but for 2 of those 4 years it was not so good to much drama and all because i was getting close to this other girl. my ex bff told me i have to choose between her or my other friend. for two years i couldn’t just let go of any friendship im not that type of person. so i fought for her to give me so many chances to make her understand that its ok my other friend is not going to take her spot. this year school is back and all my old friends are giving me and my other friend bad looks. i have a class with my bff and i get so nervous because i still love and care for her i still consider her my best friend. she in the other has a new best friend i dont know if its for real or just bc she is hurt? but i started to say hi to her but today i gave her a hug. what should i do move on and let her be happy with her new best friend? or try to get things back to how they were?

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Miss Emotional offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

you didnt need to choose between these two girls
you can have more then one best friend
and this girl who told you to choose isnt a friend (in my opinon)
she put you in a situation that hurt you and was hurting somone else, this didnt need to happen.
your friends and x bff probably are mad and hurt because you hurt somone they cared about and also made a bad choice.
there is never a friendship that can be lost completely.
go to your x bff and tell her your sorry, that you wanna try and be friends again, see what happens, let her think about ti for awhile, if it dosent work out then try another one of your friends, tell her/him you tried to se things right with this other girl but ti didnt work out, and ask if you can still be friends. do this witht hem alla nd build up the friendship again, if it dosent work out then exspand to more people and become friends with better people who will forgive you when you make a mistake.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

for one… no real friend is going to make you choose between friends… that is disrespectful of her to even tell you that.. and deserved to lose your friendship.

she was your friend because she accepted you for you.. and once she gave up on that.. then where is the real friendship there??

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