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I feel really powerless.

A bunch of people who I used to feel really quite close to have been, for want of a better word, drifting away from me. Well it’s become painfully obvious I’m not wanted. But honestly, I have no idea why. I know that asking them will just make me feel even smaller than I do already, but I do want to know. I’m just hitting a bit of a crossroads on the matter, and I guess I’d appreciate your thoughts on it.

Maybe it’s happened to someone else? Spontaneous, unexplained hatred? Is it something that I’m just not aware I’m doing? Any ideas how to reverse it? All appreciated.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

First of all, are you sure it could be called “hatred”?

Than, tell us about yourself…I can’t really tell what you might have to change, if I don’t know you…

First of all, are you sure it could be called "hatred"? Than, tell us about yourself...I can't really tell what you might have to change, if I don't know you...

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I know I’m being just a bit ambiguous, I’m holding out that someone’ll see it and be like, ‘Hey that happened to me’.

It’s not as strong as hatred perhaps, which probably is what hurts just a bit more, it’s more like distain. I just want them to care again, at least a little bit.

I know I'm being just a bit ambiguous, I'm holding out that someone'll see it and be like, 'Hey that happened to me'. It's not as strong as hatred perhaps, which probably is what hurts just a bit more, it's more like distain. I just want them to care again, at least a little bit.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

I know what you’re going through…

Something like that happened to me, and it lasted one year and a half…

But, if you could explain me what attitudes you’ve, it’d help me find a way out…

I know what you're going through... Something like that happened to me, and it lasted one year and a half... But, if you could explain me what attitudes you've, it'd help me find a way out...

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I say if your friends are being such douche nozzles, forget them, get new ones.

I say if your friends are being such douche nozzles, forget them, get new ones.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

If you are a good friend to them, and they “use to be” a good soul to you. Maybe you need to talk to one of them and ask them “Whats going on?” If its a school thing, you may wish to keep it private. Talk over msn. If you know they will avoid you more then you need to be there when they are in need. Don’t constantly ask for help but Respect them also. Other than that. I’m sorry I don’t know what to say, I don’t have friends myself.

If you are a good friend to them, and they "use to be" a good soul to you. Maybe you need to talk to one of them and ask them "Whats going on?" If its a school thing, you may wish to keep it private. Talk over msn. If you know they will avoid you more then you need to be there when they are in need. Don't constantly ask for help but Respect them also. Other than that. I'm sorry I don't know what to say, I don't have friends myself.

Help me with: Here is our story.

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