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Demented wrote:
I think you know what I am going to say.

No kidding, same here. Learn how to spell!

y r u ppl so rude?

thanks a lot

then wat do u think i am very happy to commit suicide i just have to ,can i talk to u i mean are u ready to try and help me?

Why would you wish to do something so cowardly anyways?

because i feel scared of life .i have been a good student for along time but then i loved someone 4 many years ,i never told him ,but today the way he behaves is so strangly .he is not a good guy (i think).he had told ppl he likes me and i can believe them coz he has kinda flirted with me many times ,i ignored coz i didn’t like it.see u might be confused .but in a nutshell he is probably never goin to be apart of my life although that’s a good thing coz he’s not a good boy ,but still i live him and i feel very bad that he dislikes me(my presumption).MAINLY I CANNOT CONCENTRATE IN STUDIES ALTHOUGH I LOVE MY SUBJECTS JUST COZ OF THIS GUY HAUNTING MY MIND.THAT UPSETS ME COZ IF I DON’T STUDY I WON’T SCORE AND THEN WATS THE POINT LIVIVG?

I’d love to try and help.
I was in the same boat a couple years ago,
but I bounced back and I’ve never been happier yet.
Just know that if you end your life, everybody will wonder who is at fault.
Let me explain;
Your parents will think, “What could we have forgotten to do?” Or “Why couldn’t we help?”
Your friends will think, “Weren’t we there?” Or “Why couldn’t he/she talk to me?”
People that harassed you will wonder, “…Was it because of me?”

In turn, you’ll hurt everybody around you, and that’s not good. No, not very good at all. There must be SOMETHING that you can do that makes you happy.
I had drawing. I worked on it and worked on it. Now, I’m happy again, and I’m sure I have the skills to be a very young cartoonist.

Wait, this is all because of a guy?!
(Was posted while I was typing. ^^’)
Hun, that’s a very silly reason to end your life. It really is. If you don’t want him in your life because he seems like a hazard, either don’t talk to him, or if you simply don’t want him in your life romantically, then just chill with him as a friend. Ending your life will solve no problems, only create more.

Okay, don’t kill me for saying this, but school is not everything. Yes, school is important but nothing worth killing yourself over. And I know that rejection hurts, the pain is so much you want to end it all, but understand that you only get one life.

Anon - give me a shout when you are back online. We both know what this is about. You can get past it - we have got you through it before - I’m editing the title of your post as you are, once again, asking people to help you harm yourself. - Mas

Anonymous wrote:
because i feel scared of life .i have been a good student for along time but then i loved someone 4 many years ,i never told him ,but today the way he behaves is so strangly .he is not a good guy (i think).he had told ppl he likes me and i can believe them coz he has kinda flirted with me many times ,i ignored coz i didn’t like it.see u might be confused .but in a nutshell he is probably never goin to be apart of my life although that’s a good thing coz he’s not a good boy ,but still i live him and i feel very bad that he dislikes me(my presumption).MAINLY I CANNOT CONCENTRATE IN STUDIES ALTHOUGH I LOVE MY SUBJECTS JUST COZ OF THIS GUY HAUNTING MY MIND.THAT UPSETS ME COZ IF I DON’T STUDY I WON’T SCORE AND THEN WATS THE POINT LIVIVG?

You seem very sensitive and I’m sorry someone hurt your feelings. It looks like you are self-aware enough and confident enough at writing about your situation to actually get some good help here.