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♪The Music of Love offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

have you sat down and explained this to your boyfriend?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I try. But all he does is appologize, and say it’ll never happen again.

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

experience_drive wrote:
recognize that it is his problem and stop pandering to his emotional blackmail. Meaning don’t bother defending yourself anymore, if he is angry for no reason don’t bother responding to his accusations. he will grasp rather quickly how one sided it is if you do not play into the dramatization of events.

True, I guess somewhere I do feel guilty about my feelings for this other person. So maybe thats why I try to defend myself.

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Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

i agree with experience drive, but i know that can be hard to not defend yourself. maybe tell him your not going to go through the jealousy thing anymore and tell him you’ll call him later and spend the rest of the day with your friends.

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So I Love Him…BUT

He’s perfect for me. He’s sweet and funny and my best friend. But then there’s the jealousy. Nothing violent, just emotionally exhausting. He thinks I still want someone from my past..and every two months or so, we end up breaking up because of this person. The break ups only last a matter of hours. But every minute that ticks by in that hour, my trust in us and in our future together, is hurt. I’ll fight for him and our relationship until there’s nothing left to fight for. I guess I’m just hurting, and tired, and needing to vent. Thanks for reading. Comments or advice appriciated.

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