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I stumbled across the MySpace page of an old friend of mine tonight. I haven’t heard from him since the day he moved off to Florida 3-4 years ago. He seems to be doing well and has now moved back to CT… seeing his picture made me remember all the goofing off and how much fun we had in school. I found a lot of old friends just by looking at his page. Friends I would talk to and sit with at lunch, pass notes to in class and group with in gym. They’re all doing so well, and I’m happy for them. I miss them a lot but I didn’t message any of them. After checking out their profiles I decided against it. They’ve all changed and grown up, while I’m the same goofy girl who still loves anime and art and has yet to grow up. It’s as if those 3 years of homeschooling never happened and I’m still waiting for the 1st day of tenth grade. All of my friends have grown up and moved on. Some are even engaged…. and I still sit here, and continue to wait.
I’m so tempted to find a number and call one of them… just to say hello, catch up a little, see if they remember… but I can’t. I can only imagine what they would think of me now. Besides becoming more reserved and quiet… I haven’t changed a bit. But in a way that’s a good thing, because I still love them just as much as I did that day when we were laughing and playing around in math class… the day before I got pulled out of school… I didn’t show it in the right ways when I should have and it’s too late now… but I still care.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
Littleton, CO, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

you can still say hi to them

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nikkidance offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Oh my gosh, that is exactly how I feel right now, but that’s a REALLY long story. You sound a lot like me. I guess I can’t say much because it seems lately all I’m doing is making things worse with my friends. If a phone call seems to hard right now, start by reaching out to them slower. Maybe e-mail them, or message them on myspace. Maturation takes time, I’m 19 and in ways I’m very much like I was two years ago and in ways I’m differnt, give yourself time.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i would just say hi. when old friends get in touch with me no matter how they’ve changed. some have become very religious others drug fiends but i always like to hear from them.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Don’t compare yourself to other people, and don’t judge success by material wealth. Nothing wrong with your interests. If you want to broaden your horizons, start taking courses at your local university or community college. But do it to please yourself, not anyone else. And go ahead and give them a call or email, and do NOT feel that you have anything to be ashamed about! P.S. Engagements can be a blessing or a curse . . . depends on the fiance!

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