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Whats is it when you know someone is looking at you without looking at them?

And also does it mean somthing if you keep catching the same person looking at you? what i mean is that when you look up they quickly look away as if to hide the fact they were looking at you? I get this at school alot, boths girls and guys and i was just wandering what exactly it is or whether this is just normal human nature???

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rememberpoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I think some people may like you or be interested, and some may not like you lol… so may like what you are wearing, others may be shocked, who knows. It is pretty normal, I think some people are just curious, some are judgmental, some maybe like you.. all depends, don’t let it bother you, just ignore, unless you like a certain someone giving you the look … then by all means… shoot it back at them ;)

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Rocco. offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 219 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

It’s normal, but if it happens a lot it could be because of how you dress, or what you wear, more specifically.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

but what if its the same handful of people for the past 5 years?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

plus there’s a uniform at my school…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

rumors?
coincidence?
your uniform is special?
you’re gorgeous and it hurts people eyes when they don’t look at you?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i dont belive in coincidence, but i like the last idea ;)

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rememberpoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

lol

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

and some of them are really awkaward around me, like un naturally silent or try to look away when we pass by each other…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i dont belive in coincidence, but i like the last idea ;)

http://help.com/post/178773-top-15-am…

Anonymous wrote:
and some of them are really awkaward around me, like un naturally silent or try to look away when we pass by each other…

Are you a guy or a girl and are they guys or girls?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

i’m a guy, and they are both girls and guys ;), but like i said theres only a handful…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i’m a guy, and they are both girls and guys ;), but like i said theres only a handful…

for girls it’s normal to do that (they probably like you)…and maybe the same for the guys? …do these hand full of people have anything in common?

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

ooo, wait, are you like the quiet mysterious type? maybe the guys are jelous and the girls look at you because they’re curious as to what you might be like…hmmm…

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

what? with me or each other?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:
ooo, wait, are you like the quiet mysterious type? maybe the guys are jelous and the girls look at you because they’re curious as to what you might be like…hmmm…

thats quite a complicated question for me to answer, see i’m quiet around these people i talk about here because of this apparent ‘thing’ that i dont really understand but i’m not quiet around my friends and other people…

and i doubt theyd be jelous, thats not really somthing that happens at my school…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
ooo, wait, are you like the quiet mysterious type? maybe the guys are jelous and the girls look at you because they’re curious as to what you might be like…hmmm…
thats quite a complicated question for me to answer, see i’m quiet around these people i talk about here because of this apparent ‘thing’ that i dont really understand but i’m not quiet around my friends and other people…and i doubt theyd be jelous, thats not really somthing that happens at my school…

then there’s only one other answer…they know what you did last summer!

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
ooo, wait, are you like the quiet mysterious type? maybe the guys are jelous and the girls look at you because they’re curious as to what you might be like…hmmm…
thats quite a complicated question for me to answer, see i’m quiet around these people i talk about here because of this apparent ‘thing’ that i dont really understand but i’m not quiet around my friends and other people…and i doubt theyd be jelous, thats not really somthing that happens at my school…
then there’s only one other answer…they know what you did last summer!

lol thats unlikely, i dont do anything in holiday time, nobody ever sees anyone from other social groups because of how far aprt people live…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
then there’s only one other answer…they know what you did last summer!

lol thats unlikely, i dont do anything in holiday time, nobody ever sees anyone from other social groups because of how far aprt people live…[/quote]

lmao! i was being funny…it’s a line from a movie…but here’s another thought…they’re a bunch of vampires that are debating whether to turn you into one of them or not? haha, ok I’m done being funny XP

maybe you should strike up a conversation with one of them one day

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
then there’s only one other answer…they know what you did last summer!
lol thats unlikely, i dont do anything in holiday time, nobody ever sees anyone from other social groups because of how far aprt people live…

lmao! i was being funny…it’s a line from a movie…but here’s another thought…they’re a bunch of vampires that are debating whether to turn you into one of them or not? haha, ok I’m done being funny XP

maybe you should strike up a conversation with one of them one day[/quote]

i wish it were that easy, ive like spoken to these people three times in the whole time that ive know them so it would be a bit weird, especially if the guy thing turns out to be what i think it might be, not that theres anything wrong with that i just never considerd ‘taking that route’ ;0

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Hmmm…idk what to say then…you should just ignore them or just focus on the girls. Or just confront them one day

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

ahwell, i’ll just enjoy the attention for now :)

thanks for the help btw…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
ahwell, i’ll just enjoy the attention for now :)thanks for the help btw…

haha, when life gives you lemons make lemonade
and you’re welcome!

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

i prefere apples and cider but its similar i guess lol…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i prefere apples and cider but its similar i guess lol…

lol

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Barbyman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Liston, 02, AU | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

you are alleging some one is looking at you .I would call you a Psychic.Please tell me the Lotto Numbers for next Week .PS. Urgent……

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 48 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Don’t take it so serious.

Look in the mirror - you have a frog sitting on your head!

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 48 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 17 minutes after post)

But there is a risk involved with going to the doctor to have it removed…

Because when the doctor asks how it started, the frog may reply:

“It started with a pimple in my a**.”

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 48 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 19 minutes after post)

…don’t take it personal, I just grabbed the opportunity to tell a joke.
:-)

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AdamMartinEdwardson offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 hours, 24 minutes after post)

slimline2 wrote:
you are alleging some one is looking at you .I would call you a Psychic.Please tell me the Lotto Numbers for next Week .PS. Urgent……

Psycic? what? no! Yes i may get precognitive dreams but this thing when i know someone is looking at me is quite common. I was just asking what happens if its the same people all of the time…

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 hours, 25 minutes after post)

slimline2 wrote:
you are alleging some one is looking at you .I would call you a Psychic.Please tell me the Lotto Numbers for next Week .PS. Urgent……

well i’ll try anyway…

6 8 13 29 41 43

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 hours, 26 minutes after post)

oB1canoB wrote:

slimline2 wrote:
you are alleging some one is looking at you .I would call you a Psychic.Please tell me the Lotto Numbers for next Week .PS. Urgent……
Psycic? what? no! Yes i may get precognitive dreams but this thing when i know someone is looking at me is quite common. I was just asking what happens if its the same people all of the time…

who the hell are you? i thought this was my post???

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Barbyman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Liston, 02, AU | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (14 hours, 33 minutes after post)

thank you so much for the winning Numbers .Now i can buy a bigger Boat….

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 48 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (16 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Hehe Anon, that line wasn’t yours.
YOU are the “who-the-hell-are-you?” (=anon).

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Me as you know offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

slimline2 wrote:
you are alleging some one is looking at you .I would call you a Psychic.Please tell me the Lotto Numbers for next Week .PS. Urgent……

well i’ll try anyway…

6 8 13 29 41 43

Haha, funny… I wonder how many people actually get it…

slimline2 wrote:
thank you so much for the winning Numbers .Now i can buy a bigger Boat….

DON’T USE THE NUMBERS!!!

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Me as you know offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Huh… That’s funny. I may have just made an idiot out of myself because my memory was faulty…
ANYWAY… The correct numbers are 4 8 15 16 23 42… I think… Numbers are kinda blurry sometimes, but that should be it…

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Barbyman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Liston, 02, AU | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

thanks, i guess they are for next Week. Have to trade my boat in for a bigger Boat again.Ah such is Life.Henry a Glass of Champagne please….

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Me as you know wrote:
Huh… That’s funny. I may have just made an idiot out of myself because my memory was faulty…
ANYWAY… The correct numbers are 4 8 15 16 23 42… I think… Numbers are kinda blurry sometimes, but that should be it…

yea, for anyone who wants to end up crashing on an island in a different dimension…

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