Love help: ok so back to my girl friends issues..

CraZy GiRL

ok so back to my girl friends issues..

I don’t know what to do with her.. she’s been ignoring me for 5 days and doesn’t answer my phone calls nor messages.. I txted her last night indicating that I’m very concerned and I’m only asking for a txt to know that she is ok.. She replied that she is depressed and then sent another one saying that she will let me know whats wrong if she could and she didn’t call nor txt again.. I dont know what to do.. i feel that I called and txted more than enough.. I love her but I dont think she love me back :( I don’t know what to do.. I miss her and i wanna talk to her..

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rememberpoe 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Can’t force someone to talk to you, just have to let them know that you are there for them. as long as she is not being mean and writing you off, you are doing all you can at the moment. She may just need some time, so just check up on her like you have been and eventually she will feel better and come around, just don’t get soooo pushy about it to where she begins to get annoyed and ignore you. Just let her know that you miss her and that you are there for her and see where it goes from there.

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CraZy GiRL 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

well when she replied yesterday she was a bit wired.. she said don’t “nag” even though i didn’t say anything.. but I will text her tomorrow..

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phuckit! 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Be patient. When someone is depressed, they need their time and space. She will come around and talk to you again

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bookworm16 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

rememberpoe is right, you just need to be there for her if she needs you. Maybe stop texting her so much, she might think you’re coming on too strong.

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CraZy GiRL 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I didn’t text her for 3 days and txted her just yesterday and she was like don’t nag.. i told her that i tried my best to give her space and asked her to take care of herself.. i guess i’ll just wait..

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