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I got really drunk and made a fool out of myself!

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So i got really drunk last weekend and i ended up running into this really hot guy who use to go to my school, so it turns out he lives next to me. So i ended up telling him how attractive he was and how much i liked him and a whole bunch of other embarassing stuff and i totally sent the wrong message! He’s such a nice guy but now he thinks im some psycho girl who has the hots for him, and all i think of him is that hes good looking. I sent him a message saying oh thanks for the other night and he didnt write me back, and i even went to his house to thank him and apologize for the way i acted and for what i said, but he wasn’t there. I dont know what to do because im tired of throwing myself out there because it makes me seem more psychotic but i dont want to leave him with his current impression of me.
HELP!!!!!!

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littlenick online Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 145 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Why did you get drunk?

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

If you see him again, just tell him that you wished that you two could have talked on better circumstances. If you don’t then it’s nothing to get worked up about, you could find another better looking guy in a little later.

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Lajoney offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

it was stupid idea that i let get too far

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Lajoney offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

no i mean i dont like him but i dont want him to see me like that. a drunk girl who’s in love him…i just want to be friends.

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Then just say that you were drunk at the time and anything misunderstanding that you said or did wasn’t your fault. And just ask him if he wants to be friends.

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Lajoney offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

but how do i approach him. like do i just wait until i see him around?

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miyoshi_197 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Obviously, he was curious to see waht you were really about. He saw the wrong impression of you, and now you feel that he got the wrong message. Don’t beat yourself up. Apologize to him and let bygones be bygones. You know that you don’t party constantly, and he should see this because you guys are neighbors. Invite him over, and explain to him that the night in question wasn’t the best night to meet and that if it’s his wish that you could remain friends. The best way to approach him is to send an invitation to him(having a get-together with friends). If he doesn’t accept this then don’t fret over the situation cuz he wasn’t worth it.

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Yes, just talk to him when you see him again, but if you don’t feel like your ready then don’t rush it. Do it at a soon time but do it when your ready.

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Lajoney offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

okay thanks guys. It just sucks because i hate it when people get the wrong impression of me like im not an alcholic and i dont fall for guys i hardely know, im just a young girl thats trying to find myself:P

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miyoshi_197 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Finding yourself is the best key to understanding who you are. You are trying to find your limits, and what you are learning about life. Stay true to yourself, and find yourself.

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Lajoney offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

thanks Miyoshi&&Neutra i appreciate you:]

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Lajoney wrote:
thanks Miyoshi&&Neutra i appreciate you:]

No problem.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Liston, 02, AU | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 hours, 9 minutes after post)

i would think to if i were that Guy you are a *&^%$ ,but it is to late to alter things .Now is the time to heal and that is send him a Card of deep apology that this behavier was an Accident ,blah blah and you still think he is a hot blah blah blah .Personally , i dont like drunken girls either…..

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