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Why do you feel like a bear?

On a personal note, don’t feel bad because I didn’t either, not last weekend.

You just have to find a group of people that will eccept you. On second thought, why don’t you start your own group. You could be the leader. Actually you don’t need anybody to be happy if thats what you mean, as long as your happy about yourself thats all that matters.

I’m sure you’re not unwanted. Your friends wouldn’t be your friends if they didn’t like you.
Why do you feel left out?

I wouldn’t let it get to you unless the feeling sticks around for a while. Sometimes things like this happen between friends and then go away again. If things aren’t all smooth again in a couple weeks then maybe it is time to find a new group of friends. It really isn’t that hard to do if you try.

When i was in 5th grade, i was transferred to another school where everybody knew each other. I was a complete stranger there. They did not someone who was new to join them. But i was a frail child but i pretended i would get strong as the days passed by.

Luckily, there were some girls who invited me to join them so we started to have lunch together. The mean girls then started to like me and spoke bad about others. So i felt they wanted me to join their group. Graciously, i declined and avoided them. I don’t need back biters. I needed real people.

So what am i saying here? you are not alone dealing with this one. Make a rainbow for yourself. You may feel unwanted, but heck, there are classmates who would like to know you. Don’t mind others too much. When they see you soaring high, believe me, the mean ones would let you befriend them.

But you know what to do when they do. :)

Take care!

love,
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