can running away from your problems or fears really solve anything?
just wondering not trying to be rude
Why aren’t your friends talking to you? Why do they hate you?
They don’t sound like great friends, no offense.
I think was Oscar Wilde said:” there is one thing worse than people talking about you
its people not talking about you”
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it certainly is a highly tempting option. To go running off into the wild blue.
Never to be heard from again. People would be speculating that the aliens got you.
Missing persons files. And it certainly would be interesting if anybody missed you.
But there surely must be some people that you would miss?
help.4u wrote:
How many MPG do you get?
thanks for taking it literally, about 25mpg.
I have so thought of running away too. The only thing is…Where ever I go…there I am!
go to Tlacote Mexico where there are healing wells.
Thousands of people are cured of every kind of disease.
Go there and observe the people. Lined up for blocks.
Trying to get their healing water.
Set up a business like Perrrie water. Market it all over the world.
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info on the wells is at :
There are these healing wells. It’s nothing but pure water
But has cured thousands of people of many diseases including AIDS,cancer,etc.
It’s worth looking into. Noninvasive, nontoxic, cheap.
If you want to check it out:—
http://www.share-international.org/ba…
you would help millions of people.
help.4u wrote:
Do like a “Survivor Man” thing. Take some video recorders out into the woods. Live off the land. Record your progress. When you get over yourself you can come back and sell the tapes and buy a hot dog stand or one of those vans that sells sandwiches to construction crews.
that’d be one hell of a thing to do, thing is i live in minnesota, so driving deep into the woods literally takes me an hour.
i’m not too sure where you’re at
but you can come to chicago!!
:)
i actually went through something similar
and honestly, this place is my home, in all senses of the word
granted, i miss my family — but they’re a plane ride away
at the end of the day
you need to do some things for yourself
and to really be happy, i find that i need to love my location
it sounds like you need an update - and maybe all of the garbage you are going through is just the push you need to do it
and while i’ve definitely had my days when i drove off as far as i could get…
i don’t really recommend it
you will be a lot happier if you plan it out
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capri victoria wrote:
i’m not too sure where you’re atbut you can come to chicago!!:)i actually went through something similarand honestly, this place is my home, in all senses of the wordgranted, i miss my family — but they’re a plane ride awayat the end of the dayyou need to do some things for yourselfand to really be happy, i find that i need to love my locationit sounds like you need an update - and maybe all of the garbage you are going through is just the push you need to do itand while i’ve definitely had my days when i drove off as far as i could get…i don’t really recommend ityou will be a lot happier if you plan it out
I really could use an update, seriously i hate it around here. people that i know just constantly start drama and it’s getting to be too much. and as much as i try i can’t get away from them. I’d definitely try to plan it out if i had nothing holding me back.
help.4u wrote:
All jokes aside I would love to live off the grid. Just .. ya know .. Tom Hanks castaway style not Hobo central park bench style.Bottom line .. You can’t run from your life Luke. You will be with you and will have to deal with you wherever you go.
Yeah the hobo thing isn’t my style anyway.
but seriously i know no matter what i do it’s still going to be there waiting for me.
i can always hope though
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It’s okay, I understand you’re just trying to help
ssoopphhiiee wrote:
Why aren’t your friends talking to you? Why do they hate you?
They don’t sound like great friends, no offense.
basically they hate me because the truth got twisted and i got made out to be the bad guy.
basically my friends gf and i kissed, completely mutual thing. well she told him that i forcefully kissed her and he went on the **** warpath. and he’s so wrapped around her finger that he takes whatever she says as the absolute truth. So when i tried to explain myself he wouldn’t listen and just kept up with the insults and the threats.
I honestly don’t know why he’s with her anyway, she slept with like three guys when he was away at college. absolutely blows my mind
Seems like kissing your friend’s gf wasn’t a good idea. What were you thinking?
Cell wrote:
Seems like kissing your friend’s gf wasn’t a good idea. What were you thinking?
Yeah i see that, I honestly don’t know what i was thinking.
for sure.
oh wow - i just read what brought all of this upon you
and see - i was involved with a guy for a little while… and then found out about his 2 1/2 year relationship that he was in with this other girl
so i broke it off with him
but was still really into him, and everything he said or did in regards to me
it was a sticky situation
and this one seems to be getting pretty thick around you
but, i really don’t think it’s your fault.
honestly, everyone needs a change of scenery — maybe you’ll be like me
i went from florida to chicago
pretty intense hah
but seriously, this city is so amazing - i don’t have the time to focus any of my attention on the bs back home
and i think you will find the same kind of thing working out for you
I don’t think ditching your whole life will help. Thinking ahead and trying to make good choices from here out is probably the best plan.
A new setting will only help if you don’t bring any problems with you. That’s probably hard to do.
capri victoria wrote:
for sure. oh wow - i just read what brought all of this upon youand see - i was involved with a guy for a little while… and then found out about his 2 1/2 year relationship that he was in with this other girlso i broke it off with himbut was still really into him, and everything he said or did in regards to meit was a sticky situationand this one seems to be getting pretty thick around youbut, i really don’t think it’s your fault.honestly, everyone needs a change of scenery — maybe you’ll be like me i went from florida to chicagopretty intense hahbut seriously, this city is so amazing - i don’t have the time to focus any of my attention on the bs back homeand i think you will find the same kind of thing working out for you
That’s a huge transition, Florida to Chicago.
but yeah i think you probably have the best idea of what i’m going through more than anybody. not saying that they can’t relate or anything
no - i think everyone on here has some really good advice
and with my advice, as with anyone’s — the best thing for you to do is listen to what people have to say, and then let it sort of simmer in your own mind
you can filter out the things you don’t agree with, and take some of the things you do relate to - and apply them to the situation in your own life.
:)
Yeah it definitely wouldn’t be easy to leave here and not drag that stuff with me, since i’m pretty sure he’d hound me even more than he is now if i left. so really there’s no way for me to win in this situation. It’s so hard arguing with someone who considers anything you say to be an outright lie.
I’d just like to thank all of you, seriously it means a lot to me.
I know i have to stay here and deal with this, and it won’t be easy or end well. but it has to get resolved somehow.
maybe even sitting down
and just telling him, you know, “look - i want to hear EVERYTHING that you have to say to me, because i respect you. and i want you to listen to what i have to say in return. afterwords, we can either work this out - or go on our seperate ways without looking back. but at least we’ll know that we heard eachother’s full side of what’s going on.”
good luck!!
i’m not sure if that helps very much - but please let us know how things are going
and as i said… chicago, man.
haha come on over to the chi and we will hang
gnight
yeah i’ll probably try that, even though the probability of him coming in swinging( literally) is pretty high.
I’ll be sure to let you know how things are going
lol chicago isn’t sounding too bad actually.
but i must say g’night beecause A) I have work tomorow. and B) My Laptop is going to die soon.
So G’night and thank’s everyone
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Find out who lives the closest to you from here, as in the people on Help.com. Stay with them for a day or two, refuel, and drive on the the next. You could go around the country on practically nothing. TaDa!
Got a Passport?? sell your Car get a Back pack come to Australia or New zealand and
do some serious Back packing .Job? Do some Fruit picking .All season job. Stay a few weeks ,go Surfing .Now Summer is in 3 Month Down Under you should see how many Backpackers are here from the USA and Canada Not one wants to go home. Plus this way you get to see the World we live in…..
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