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My best friend is 14 and her boy friend is 16…

. he lives like 2 hours away from us. there like the perfect couple!
there so cute and hes really sweet to her they been going out for 2 months. we visit them alot (me my other friend and our bfs all three of the guys live 2 hours away from us)
she been really happy w/ him and and all of a sudden her dad is saying she can see him or go out w/ him. he says that she cant date till shes 16….. he wants her to hang out w/ guys her oun age (but wat he doesnt realize is that she hangs out w/ older people because there more mature, the guys her age just do drugs and try to get in yr pants…)
she soooo upset because she thinks shes never gonna see him again…. she called me like bawling two days in a row…. its so sad!
how can we get her dad to change his mind??!!

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clint.222 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

i think you should get her to talk to her dad, they have to work things out. If her father is resonable than he will let them date again if she explains why she wants to…

she shouldn’t, however, disobey her father. Never do that.

Goodluck to you both!

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danceair9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

shes tried talking to her dad but thanks for the help :) very true she wont disobay him

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TriumphAlice offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Would it help if your BFF’s dad touched base with her BF’s parents? Set up a “probation” period where she can see him limited times, under supervision, then as time goes on there can be less restrictions given they both behave and keep good grades, help around the house, etc.

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