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Well tonight I realized that I still like my old flame.

It’s been about 6 months since we last talked. After I told him that I liked him, he started treating me like ****… I thought I was over him, but just about everywhere I go I see him. One of his best friends is in my photography class and I could barely keep myself together during his slide show. Then at the football game tonight, my really close friend tells me she likes him (by that she usually means she wants to play around with someone). I gave her his number, but I got really really pissed because I felt like I was using her just to get back to him. The whole night I kept thinking about him, and it’s tearing me up inside! I really like him, borderline love him, but I don’t know what to do anymore…

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 113 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

You were using her to get to him ? doesnt it bother you then that she may end up dating him ? and your chances of a reconciliation are over for a time at least ?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Have you thought that maybe he has moved on and dosen’t want to have anything to do with you?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Sasha101 wrote:
You were using her to get to him ? doesnt it bother you then that she may end up dating him ? and your chances of a reconciliation are over for a time at least ?

yeah it does kind of bother me but i didnt think anything of it when i gave her his number. it bothered me that i was more anxious for him to respond than she was

Neutra wrote:
Have you thought that maybe he has moved on and dosen’t want to have anything to do with you?

yes i have, everyday. but it’s hard for me because we have a lot of mutual friends before our whole falling out so i deal with him just about everyday.

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