friends help: I am still so in remorse over a marriage I ended 35 years ago!

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I am still so in remorse over a marriage I ended 35 years ago!

what is wrong with me?. she really loved me! and I was too full of myself to make our marriage work out. I still yurn for her and I wish i could turn back the hands of time. I am happy though that she has been married for 30 years, has a nice home and two lovely daughters. but ive been kicking myself ever since and I just cant let it go. (though I would like too). I called her about 12 years ago and we talked. (providing i didnt call back) I want to know. should I call her again? and if so, what should i talk about? I miss my friend” the biggest mistake of my life! “Can anyone help me out? Warren

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JellyBelly 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Call her again. But as long as she’s happily married, end the conversation and wait another 12 years.

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JellyBelly 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

But DO NOT stalk her…I hope you haven’t been stalking her.

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susan1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Accept the fact you blew it.

Don’t call her again.

Learn from your mistake and treat new women well.

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JellyBelly 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

And, if you still love her so much…do something for her anonymously. Something that will take years for her to discover, such as a trust for her daughters. She would really appreciate that and it would make her reminisce.

Are you remarried?

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lilypacific 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

My marrage ended over 20 years ago and I am being stalked but don’t know by whom, or why.

JellyBelly 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

how do you know ur being stalked

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*lilies 453 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Hello Warren, there are pieces in your life that you have not completed, that is why you are yearning to hold it back again. It could be because of the hurt you know you have inflicted on them when you were young and silly.

You can call her, why not. But try to limit it. You don’t want to destroy a relationship and home of somebody whom you know could have offered the same love for you if you worked for the marriage.

But now that it has passed, i’m sure you have moved on just like she did. Maybe a friendly how are you would do.

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tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 55 minutes after post)

wow thank you for your responces! well lets see? no I am not a stalker. thanks for saying to me that it is ok for me to call her and keep it short and sweet but….im still not sure if i should (or just “Let it Be”… and no i am not married im single. to Jelly Belly and Lilies and Lily Pacific thank you! you wonderful ladies!

*lilies 453 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

You are welcome. I’m glad you admitted you are not going to stalk on her. I guess you have reached your age when you are mature enough to handle memories.

Would her husband know who you are?

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tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

yes I know her husband they met on the day we were having difficutlies at a swimming pool where she was staying with her mother and he was also living in the same apt complex. I went over there to talk to her and she swam to the middle of the pool to not deal with me? he was there laying on a recliner and i think tried to intervene, but I told him to Back off more or less. I guess they got together after I left. turns out he was local to where I lived 20 miles away. small world! Tony

tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Lilies Hello! I have been thinking about you and this stalker thing??? are you being stalked? how do you know you are being stalked? do you think you know who it is? or maybe someone new who wants to meet you? im just curious. I am not in the least most remotley interested in wasting my time stalking anyone. if I have something to say, I will say it. I was just cuiours for you. your friend Tony

*lilies 453 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Uhm hi, i don’t think i have been stalked before. So no idea. :D

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tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

sorry it was another response on here jelly belly im sorry for the mix up. hey where do ya live im in san diego ca.

*lilies 453 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

So who are you asking now?

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tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

come on im asking you Lilies……….geeeeeeeeeez are you on now? im here, if you would like to talk tony

*lilies 453 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days after post)

haaaa? lol take care tony.

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tastepus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 8 hours after post)

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