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It’s been about 6 months since we last talked.

After I told him that I liked him, he started treating me like ****… At first he was fine with me liking him, then the next day he goes off and tells eveyone that I like him. We pretty much hated each other. I thought I was over him, but just about everywhere I go I see him. It’s really hard to avoid each other because we share a lot of mutual friends (the downside of living in a small town).

One of his best friends is in my photography class and I could barely keep myself together during his slide show in class today.
Then at the football game tonight, my really close friend tells me she likes him (by that she usually means she wants to play around with someone). I gave her his number, but I got really really pissed because I felt like I was using her just to get back to him. I also was kind of jealous but that’s honestly not why I became really uncomfortable.

The whole night I kept thinking about him, and it’s tearing me up inside! I know he could care less about me, but I still like him, borderline love him! I don’t know what to do anymore…

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TriumphAlice offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Sounds like someone not worth your time. I know it may be hard, but engross yourself in an activity or hang out with you friends that aren’t trying to hook up with him to get your mind off it. Forget about him and move on to someone else. At least you built up the courage to let your feelings known. Brave girl.

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Help me with: I apologize for my recent disappearance.
mar98 offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 6 minutes after post)

huh, I haven’t talked in four months to the girl I like. She likes me, but has a bf. I thought i was getting over her too, but then last week school started and I kept seeing her around campus. I tried my best to avoid her (and did.) Still however, all those feelings.. those memories came back in a flash and now I’m just very very depressed. I can’t even concentrate in school. This whole thing has turned into a very long bad dream and I would do anything for it to end.

Well, just know that you aren’t the only one out there.
I’m planning to wait a little longer and than start talking to her again.
Who knows what will happen!

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Help me with: I predict another long sad summer.

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