Love help: I love this guy, I have known him for as long as I can remember, we are really close and he is like a brother to me.

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AshleyAnemia. (:

I love this guy, I have known him for as long as I can remember, we are really close and he is like a brother to me.

But I love him, and he is my first love. I can’t get him out of my head; I cant stop talking about him. BUT I am 13 and he is 16. At New Years went out with this lad and the lad I like. *lol didn’t talk to me for 3 months*

I told my mum and she asked me if he fancied me. I hoped he did, but he wouldn’t tell me. I love him, I get jealous if my friends talk to him, but I can’t tell him how I feel because I might wreck our friendship but I always wish I could be with him; when I hug him it is like the whole world stops. I cry every night before I go to sleep - wishing I could be in his arms. I haven’t told any one. I am to scared. I feel better but I just want to be with him!!

HELP

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Note: * unclear to me.
;) Haha.

Please help her. Anyone.

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AshleyAnemia. (: edited this post 1 year, 2 months ago. Read the previous text »

right i love dis lad i have none him since i can remember we are really close he is like a brother but i love him and he is my first love i cant get him out of my head i cant stop talking about but i am 13 and he is 16 and at new year i got off with this lad and the lad i like lol didnt talk to me for 3 months i told my mum and she asked me if he fancyed me and i hoped he did but he wouldnt tell me but i love him i get jealouse if my m8s talk 2 him but i cant tell him how cus i feel cus i might reck r friendship but i always wish i could be with him when i hug him it is like the whole world stops i cry every night b4 i go 2 bed wishing i could be in his arms i havent told any one i am to scared and i feel better even now i feel better but i just wont to be with him!! HELP

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AshleyAnemia. (: edited this post 1 year, 2 months ago. Read the previous text »

I have known this guy for as long as I can remember, we are really close and he is like a brother to me. But I love him, and he is my first love. I can’t get him out of my head; I cant stop talking about him. BUT I am 13 and he is 16. At New Years went out with this lad and the lad I like. *lol didn’t talk to me for 3 months*

I told my mum and she asked me if he fancied me. I hoped he did, but he wouldn’t tell me. I love him, I get jealous if my friends talk to him, but I can’t tell him how I feel because I might wreck our friendship but I always wish I could be with him; when I hug him it is like the whole world stops. I cry every night before I go to sleep - wishing I could be in his arms. I haven’t told any one. I am to scared. I feel better but I just want to be with him!!

HELP

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Note: * unclear to me.
;) Haha.

Please help her. Anyone.

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miss_enigma 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Sounds like he may just fancy you back. As I have said before, if you tell a true friend that you have feelings for them and they don’t feel the same the friendship will usually remain intact. Where you have stated that he was possibly jealous, could be that he does like you as well.

It’s great that you can talk to your Mum about this as well. Mum’s have lots of experience to share and can be a great support.

Good luck!

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okei! 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 hours, 41 minutes after post)

at 13, forget about it!

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Nikolai 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 47 minutes after post)

XD i love people from Great Britain/Australia! they always talk in the awesomest way!

wait until you are fifteen because a sixteen year old “lad” (haha) will probably not fancy (lol) or really think a 13 year old as cute/hott/pretty/beautiful and smart/witty/smashing(lols!!!). the older one gets the smaller the age difference seems, i know I’m 17 and i am thinking about going out with a fifteen year old right now. at least wait until you are 14 to tell him how you feel.

clairesv 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

My daughter is 13 and she has a 16 year old boy who loves her to bits, but he is scared himself, because he is worried he will get jibed for going out with a 13 year old… but at the end of the day if he was 20 and she was 17 it would be ok, so I don’t see what the problem is if two people really think that much of each other.

I would advice you to try and talk to this boy first and see if he will tell you or give you an indication of how he feels. He might well fancy you too, but is to afraid to say anything in case he gets jibed about it too!

My cousin met her life partner at the age of 12 and they are still together now to this day and have two children at age 30. I believe you can fall in love at a young age, but please remember at this age it is very hard to know for sure that you are really in love, especially when you are going through all sorts of emotions as you go through puberty!

If he feels the same about you, maybe you could just keep it between yourselves and your parents if you want to “date”, so none of you get jibed. Otherwise you could just try and hold onto your deep friendship until you both feel better about the age difference… real true love will wait!!!

And… it is really great that you can talk to your parents about it all and you have an open relationship with them.

I wish you all the best!!

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

Enjoy the friendship that you have now, you are quite young to even know how to deal with the relationship why give up a good thing?

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