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OUCH: Are you afraid of getting hurt?

What might happen if you do what you want anyways?

What might happen if you don’t?

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 310 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I don’t really understand what you mean but from what I can gather people usually do what they want anyway.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m not very afraid, but I don’t want to get hurt. I can’t afford it. Every choice I make I try as hard as possible to move more towards healthiness than hurtingness.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I have loads of arms to protect me from getting hurt.
But i can take risks when i truly love someone.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

i think were all afraid of getting hurt in some aspect or another.
you just have to take the plunge you never know untill you try.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Some things you can know before trying. Like, jumping off a tall cliff to crash on rocks is going to hurt. So I wouldn’t want to do that.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

I’m not afraid. I have had children, that bloody hurts. Physically and mentally, continually. Still not afraid. I love it.
I have been hurt in the past but i’m a duster.

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yassengregorovich offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

Humans are generally very bad at risk assessment. Look at car accidents vs. plane accidents for example. How many people are afraid to ride in a car, even though it is tens of times more dangerous than flying on a plane.

Try looking at it rationally. Unless you plan to do something absolutely crazy, you will be fine.

If you don’t? Well… Sometime later in your life, you might look back at your situation and be sad that you didn’t take the opportunity to do something that you’d really love to have done.

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Tallaght, 07, IE | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 45 minutes after post)

check out John Nash’s the game theory…and the film ” A beautiful Mind”..don’t know if i’ll answer you questions but it a good film and really interesting..

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Honestly, yeah. I am afraid.

I don’t wanna know what will happen if I do or don’t.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 hours, 28 minutes after post)

I sometimes wish i would have a heart as that of a child’s. Children are not afraid to love. They give in affection and attention without to much issues hanging.

But i also know of one who is not scared to give their all when they love. It’s amazing.

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