Year help: this is mainly a rant for the people that know what happend with me and my ex. - Help.com

I don’t think any feelings are wrong if they are your own it is more how you act on those, maybe she is also finding it hard and that was her way of proving something to her dad that he can disagree but he can’t stop her?

your not wrong to feel upset or even anger because of this…but this is a cruitial time to understand what you want to do and how you deal with it…let her go and deal with the anger in a postive way…get a punching bag and train up! :)

Yeah I can understand but are yu reaylly sure that she is doing it to prove something to you?
I mean you say that the relationship has to end because of her dad not liking her going out with an older lad and then she goes out with someone older, I think she has more of an issue with her dad than you.

yes it is a f’d up thing but f’d up things happen all the time…this is just one…(of many i can assure you) take care of who you want to be…and i guess feel pity for those who don’t realise that what they do hurt people…she’s going through her own battle of finding herself and i don’t think she’s doing this intentionally to hurt you…i can tell you personally i have hurt people but didn’t realise i was doin it…guess i was running my own agenda and not thinkin of the other people in my life…we all gotta live with what we do and how we do it…so think and look after yourself…the best revenge is living well :)

Hey, its been awhile, how are you besides mad? No you are not wrong to be angry and upset, thats a natural reaction. I hope you find healing and happiness! Be strong and find a way to move on, that doesn’t necessarily mean find a new girl but it does mean that you have the right and the obligation to find peace in your life:-) Have some fun Bud!