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Where do you think I stood with this girl?

I HAVE gotten over her!.. but I’m just wondering..

Ok so we met about a year ago and got closer as time moved on.
I told her I liked her last Valentines day and we got closer and closer.
She would invite me over and we’d have fun and there was lots of flirting..She would let me hit her in a playful way when teasing.. There was even some intense puppy dog like eye contact from her.. I never would kiss her bcuz I knew she has a bf, but she NEVER WOULD TELL ME! When his name came up once she said clearly “Oh, he’s just a friend.” I sometimes feel like she was trying to hide him from me and still is.
Maybe she liked BOTH of us?? Anyway, things just kinda ended when school got out and I backed off..we kinda stopped talking when she went back home.

Oh in case you’re wondering she’s is tighter with him.
I think because they saw eachother a lot this summer, had fun, and he was very persistent!.. I wasn’t:(

I would really like to know if this girl ever saw me as “more than a friend?”
Would you say I was in a more “Neutral Zone” with her?
It just didn’t seem we were “just friends!”

It’s over now, but I’d like to know if she did back then.
Thanks for any input!

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

its hard to say really
i think she did like you
have you spoken to her since?

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1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

no I haven’t spoke to her yet.
I’m waiting.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

For it to end I guess. I just don’t want to get in the way of their thing.

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1 year, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

why should I talk?

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[:Dear Sunshine; offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Hmm I dont know, I think you should talk to you her, but try not to flirt too much, because your right you shouldnt get in their way.

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1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

ok I might talk again, but never mind that.

My question was do you think she saw me as more than a friend?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I that she ued to like you, but now with this other guy she dosent know how to feel.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

i think she was torn between having you as a friend/lover
did something happen in between, that made her go back to her current bf?

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