Love help: After 2 months being broken up, I’ve finally spent this last week NOT contacting him. - Help.com

Good job on moving on, and since you’ve had issues getting past him, I don’t think I’d accept his friend request right now. You can just leave it in your inbox if you think you might want to later (you don’t have to decline it). Also, I wouldn’t read anything into his sending you this request - I don’t think it means anything (although someone else might have a different opinion). You just keep taking care of yourself and moving forward - way to go!

There is no point accepting his request. He would be posting info and pics about him and his new life and i’m sure you would just be devastated.

A friends list at facebook or what else is good list of those people who make you feel nice inside. You need the companionship of your friends.

You don’t need to add someone who has hurt you.

He is trying to hurt you. Why would he hurt you by saying hurting things but letting you remain in his list of friends?

I don’t see any other reason behind it.

And he probably wants you to move on. So he is letting you see his new girl and their pictures. You don’t need to see them of course.

Let him be. He is not worth it. No point in confusing yourself the reason why he does these things. He is certainly not worth your attention.

forget him u desiver better and u will find some one who will make u forget all about him. trust me.

I think you’ve done amazingly well for not being in contact with him. Facebook is an awful thing when relationships are over. I know these times are incredibly hard but things will get better, I promise you. And one day in the future you’ll have someone who loves you with all their heart and you’ll look back and think, what did I ever see in that guy anyway?

I say congradulations on moving on.
Maybe hes noticed that youve stopped trying to contact him, so he wants to make it “easy” for you to keep hurting and obsessing. Just stay strong and dont accept his request.