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guy help: so a guy i was friends with for 2 years went

on a vacation to Florida and when he got back he invited me down to hang out and he gave me a beautiful necklace. We had our first kiss and have hung out a couple of times since then but he hasn’t asked me out so im not really sure what’s going on.

so could someone enlighten me please. i mean im pretty sure he likes me but he’s the first guy i’ve ever kissed and cuddled with and im not really sure.

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

are you the first girl hes kissed or cuddles with?

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

no he’s had a girlfriend before me

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

he is probably just wanting to take things slow.
just ask him where your going.

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

…

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

raiderettegir wrote:
…

what?

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

actually i was talking to one of my other friends and she just said that he knew i hadn’t gone out with anyone before and he didn’t want to scare me off so i guess he is just taking things slow :)

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

yep.

guys get just as nervous as girls do.
give him time
you don’t need to rush into a relatinship, do you?
just keep hanging out and a relationship will follow.

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah.there right.

ugh im so sad!

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

no im fine not rushing into one
i was just curious what people thought about it because i think im in love with him
and its said that love is blind so…. :)
i just needed the reasurance that guys do take things slow

umm raiderettegir are you okay….what’s wrong

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Malori can i have some help..

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

magic’s in the air wrote:
no im fine not rushing into one
i was just curious what people thought about it because i think im in love with him
and its said that love is blind so…. :)
i just needed the reasurance that guys do take things slow

umm raiderettegir are you okay….what’s wrong

no,…actuallty im not that happy!

the guy i like..is just idk :( i think he hates me

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

what happened between you that you think he hates you
maybe he’s just shy around you

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

HES NOT SHY!

well he has a gf and i no his ex,

but..he was hella nice and i like see him EVERDAY at practice,

and he said was pretty lol

and like we where texting eachother EVERYDAY

then now hes ignoring me ,and i dont kno why,

i asked him on mysoce if he was mad at me ,he said no,my phones just took.then i said how come and he didnt reply

then i sent him another text cuzz i knew he got his phone back cuz i called him blocked and he didnt text me back,then i sent him another message on myspace and he read it and didnt reply,
then i had my friend that noes him text him and say hey and see him he replys to then and he DID!

so..ugh idk

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

ugh

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

yeah sorry i had to run to the laundry room

what’s up?
need another pep talk???

lol

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (42 minutes after post)

maybe give him space
he’ll realize what he lost
im actually not that great when it comes to relationships

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (43 minutes after post)

psssh me either…

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (44 minutes after post)

OH THANKZ!lol jp

malori and magic please help me!]

ugh!:(

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malori* 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (46 minutes after post)

well tell me what you need help with!!!
i have to leave soon so make it snappy!!

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (46 minutes after post)

my advise is that if he’s taken then you should be there as a friend but his girlfriend probably told him to stay away from you

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chev.jame 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Don’t sweat the small stuff, folks! ;-)

raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Malori_LeMagnifique wrote:
well tell me what you need help with!!!
i have to leave soon so make it snappy!!

i already told you guys..

magic’s in the air wrote:
my advise is that if he’s taken then you should be there as a friend but his girlfriend probably told him to stay away from you

and actually i dont know his gf but i kno his ex and shes the one who probaly said not to talk to me .

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (52 minutes after post)

chev.jame wrote:
Don’t sweat the small stuff, folks! ;-)

ITS NOT SMALL STUFF

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (53 minutes after post)

oh sorry for the misunderstanding
start all over with him…just give him space for a week or so then slowly start talking with him again and try to become friends with him

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (55 minutes after post)

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (56 minutes after post)

told you im bad with relations
*crosses arms and taps foot angrily* those silly boys

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raiderettegir 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (56 minutes after post)

magic’s in the air wrote:
oh sorry for the misunderstanding
start all over with him…just give him space for a week or so then slowly start talking with him again and try to become friends with him

yea i guess i just i just like him ALOT

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THE INTERNET 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

raiderettegir wrote:

chev.jame wrote:
Don’t sweat the small stuff, folks! ;-)

ITS NOT SMALL STUFF

hehe
Any way…
I dont think he wants the relationship anymore raiderette, perhaps he is confused, perhaps he is done with it

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blackrose 38 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

hmm maybe he’s nervous.

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*country girl* 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

are you giving advice to me or raiderettegir cause we both spilled our guy problems on this post?
but if it was for me then to update you i am going out with him :)

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