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I’m really sorry there’s nothing I can do to help.
Have you decided whether or not you’re going to keep the baby?

i can really relate what you must have been going through…
i know part of the world where your parents would’ve definitely literally kill you… if not the law, which would means both you and your man…
i just really really hope and sincerely wish you’re not in anywhere even near those parts…
one thing i really don’t understand though, you thought everything’s gonna be ok just because you love him?, how did you come to that conclusion?, ‘love conquer all’ perhaps?
well, i guess you need to seek help from either your eldest in the family or one who is the most well-known for being respectable and wise in your community, and usually if everything were to be ‘forgiven & forgotten’, your man would be asked to marry you. now, the main question you should ask yourself is, will he?

Whatever you decide to do just remember that your family doesn’t have to know. Any doctors appointments etc are confidential and you can do them alone or with your fella. I doubt you’ll want to keep it as I can imagine the negativity and struggle having this baby would equal for you but thats your choice and no ones got the right to tell you what to do on that score all I say is that in certain circumstances it’s understandable to want to get rid of it. I really don’t know what I’d do if I got my girl pregnant (she’s also muslim) it’s not really something you can prepare for as you don’t get to practise this stuf till its happening to you.
Can I also ask that whilst yes your religion is important can you please look elsewhere for your answers on this one as I know that all you will find within religion is self hate and deprecation for this subject(just my personal opinion). At the end of the day you’ve given in to entirely natural urges and it doesn’t make you a bad person or wrong in any way and I’ve no doubt that under different circumstances you would make a fine mother but this really doesn’t seem to be the right time, place or anything to bring a child into.
And everybodys scared day in day out but fear clouds your mind so if you let that go an answer may just come out of the woodwork.

PLEASE take a pregnancy test before worrying.
Just to confirm it