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I have a question.

There is this guy that I find very attractive…I’ve posted about him on here before..he works at the coffee shop across from my apartment. I still haven’t really spoken to him other than ordering my coffee…but today I overheard him talking about this show he is going to tonight. Would it be creepy if I went with some friends? Is that too stalkerish??

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sTArDuSt... offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Trípoli, 41, GR | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

lol no it isnt ..you totally can go and you went just with some friends ..pretend it has nothing to do with him n act surprised when ull see him lol..dont worry we all done it :D

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe not stalkerish, but indirect. Why don’t you just strike up a conversation with him at the coffee shop?

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Yes, like “Too bad we can’t order coffee at the movies, because some of them put me to sleep! I hope I can find something interesting to see this weekend!” ;-)

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Yeah just tell him you over heard that and ask him about it and whats is like whats going on and maybe you might and see him there.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (34 minutes after post)

If he knows you were standing in the area where he was talking, Id hazard a guess that if you show up, he may well guess you’d overheard. Be brave go to the coffee shop and strike up a conversation ;-)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Or you could say “Hey talented coffee preparer, you intrigue me…here’s my number”. Too bold?

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1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Well the show is in the neighborhood, so it would be possible that i just happened to go on my own….
i dont know, i havent felt comfortable starting a conversation with him yet, im shy! but i think this could possibly strike up a conversation itself, us happening to be at the same bar and everything…i dont know i really dont want to freak him out though!

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ollyfish offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (56 minutes after post)

nah its fine, just act casual maybe try and catch his eye, but act like you havent seen him, see if he approaches you and if you both look at each other at the same time, smile and wave, maybe go over and talk to him later, aaand this will be ‘ammo’ if you will, to talk to him about the show next time you see him :) good luck

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

No its not but if you go with people and don’t tell them your reason to go you’ll be fine. Then you can bump in to him and say you know hey i know you. However have the intention to go have fun at this thing and pretend he’s not going

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 1 minute after post)

Ok 2 of my friends agreed to go with me….so i’m going to do it! wish me luck though, i’m sure nothing will end up happenening, but i’m still a little nervous!

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