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:) Hmm.
Call her up and ask to hang out.
Plain and simple.

Talk to her, try to hang out with her…

It’s always the same…

Get to know her first, give her a reason for trusting you.
She probably just doesn’t know you very well. you have to give it time

i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin

even if im not

Anonymous wrote:
i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin

:) I blurt out random things during awkward silences.
Never fails to put a smile on my boyfriend’s face.
;) And We’ve been going out for 7 months… we still have to awkward moments.
Haha.

Try that?

Anonymous wrote:
i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin

So?
Maybe she’ll like it….

If you’re afraid of that, then try to go slooooowly..

just keep getting know her, be friends to start with. then later on it’ll get easier

Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!!

Like today at school.
There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”

*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.

.ashleyyy = wrote:
]Like today at school.There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.

Axe smells better on men though…

haha alright, i guess i can try to call her, or txt her lol. i dont really have much to lose at this point

mr_biscui wrote:
Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!!

That’s not true. you can be friends with a girl and not trying it on..

2511 wrote:

.ashleyyy = wrote:
]Like today at school.There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.

Axe smells better on men though…

Haha.
Well if you met me, I’m more of a tom-boy punk person. ;DD I hang out with guys alot.

Anonymous wrote:
haha alright, i guess i can try to call her, or txt her lol. i dont really have much to lose at this point

(y)
Keep me updated.
:) I have to go.

*potentially trying it on*

Jinx wrote:

mr_biscui wrote:
Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!!

That’s not true. you can be friends with a girl and not trying it on..

*Potentially*

Besides…it happens most of the times…

Not really, I hang out with a lot of guys and from what I know, none of them are into me that way

ask her if she’d like to hang out with you sometime…be casual and confident. see what u have in common and do something u both like. :) x

Jinx wrote:
Not really, I hang out with a lot of guys and from what I know, none of them are into me that way

Believe me…I know a lot who work in an other way…

Trust me thers always one sat stewing in his own juices cos he cant find a way to let you know how he feels. Read this site, they appear with amazing regularity

mr_biscui wrote:
Trust me thers always one sat stewing in his own juices cos he cant find a way to let you know how he feels. Read this site, they appear with amazing regularity

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sorry it was a response to jinxs comments above. I’m too lazy to add her comment thus giving mine the context it needs.

that has alot of meaning to it, and it makes alot of sence. thankss

haha tru, iv forced myself through some complexes before, they aint pleasant. il keep that in mind

like, i used to not be able to let things go, and always have a terrrible view of myself. i had to leave that behind in my old town lol

i did. it was hard, and it was slow but im deff better then b4

thxx. and yeah thats tru, if you get thru somtin like this youl feel alot more happier, and youl tend to get more out of life

try this out… “Hey, I have a blast hanging out with you and getting to know you, is there anyway I can see you outside of school/work/our group of friends?”