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Mak' offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Christ, someone needs to press charges.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Did you tell the police what happened?

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

hang in there

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

How can you have an “ex” if you are only 15? And if he put your friend into a coma don’t the police have enough evidence to arrest him?

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

honestly i don’t know what happend. he just left and never came back then i found him. they cant find my ex and his friends anymore. i just feel like total sh*t for this

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there

that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time

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Mak' offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Just as an addendum, this isn’t your fault at all. Unstable people tend to be everywhere and its easy to get mixed up with them. How’s your friend doing?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Keep yourself out of harm’s way. Your ex sounds very dangerous. r u in a safe place?

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Kyle_01 wrote:

Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time

or theropy and meds also seem to work

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Keep yourself out of harm’s way. Your ex sounds very dangerous. r u in a safe place?

i’m at my house. but thats not really the safest place

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Animal i have become wrote:

Kyle_01 wrote:
Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
or theropy and meds also seem to work

unfortunatly i got those

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

r u alone? If you see your ex call 911 right away.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Do have access to any type of protection?

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
or theropy and meds also seem to work
unfortunatly i got those

oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
r u alone? If you see your ex call 911 right away.

my family is here but thats it. we live in a really small area where theres hardly anyone here and i wouldn’t notice him if he came to my house

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Animal i have become wrote:

Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
or theropy and meds also seem to work
unfortunatly i got those
oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type

i’ve been trying some different one for a while. but i dont really ave anyone to ask on that because i don’t know anyone who as these problems and i’m too sy to confront myself to the people i know about that stuff

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

How about going to freakin’ Doctor???

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

southern_comfort wrote:
How about going to freakin’ Doctor???

i do go to a doctor, but i hate him. which really doesn’t help

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:
Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
or theropy and meds also seem to work
unfortunatly i got those
oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type
i’ve been trying some different one for a while. but i dont really ave anyone to ask on that because i don’t know anyone who as these problems and i’m too sy to confront myself to the people i know about that stuff

ya its hard i know my parents dont even know im depressed let alone im doing meds and have had a life full of ________ so i do it through the school and i just talk to the school psycyotrist (sorry for spelling) and tell him that the meds arnt working,its eisier after its over sounds wierd but its true

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

no more qouteing please dont

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah that was starting to get big. i had to let my parents know about my depression. but sometimes i wish they didn’t because now my little sister whos only 11 is catching on and i dont want her to know this. right now my parents think everything is okay but its just getting worse and worse. they don’t even know i was in a abusive relationship. somehow they just never really found out

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

You need to tell them now. They need to know what to do when he shows up.

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

of course their going to know now

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You didn’t do anything wrong. Not a thing.

Your ex is a weakling. He can’t face reality and needs to take his anger out on that which is smaller than him. He can’t gain the respect he wants, so he instills fear instead.

You did the RIGHT thing.

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

they know that david is in the hospital they just dont know it was him who did it and that he was also abusive to me as well. my parents dont really actually care all tat much to tell you the truth.

definitly doesnt feel like the right thing…

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Devil_on_Earth wrote:
I’m so sorry honey! I hope David gets better…

thank you, hopefully he does. i have no idea what i’d do if he died…

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Devil_on_Earth wrote:
You’d continue going and living in his memory

dont think like that think positive he will live =)

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (34 minutes after post)

lol thanks, i really do not want to have another friend pass away. that was the worst time and still is of my life

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (35 minutes after post)

wait that didnt make sense lol ohh well. just glad i’m not in english class then

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (39 minutes after post)

if you need to talk about anything just give me a shout

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (39 minutes after post)

i’m just hoping for it. i already made a promise to myself that i’d visit him as much as i could till he wakes up ( see positive =D)

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (39 minutes after post)

kk will do thanks

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

thanks, that gives me some hope on that.

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

thanks, i’m sure he will (my attempt and thinking positive as much as i can)

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

i live in minysoda(minnesota) its like 10:30 so im getting a little tired. good luck tomarrow

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (52 minutes after post)

thankss. hopefully i dont think i have to worry about my ex or his friend showing up at school for awhile… hopefully… (lol my uncle lives there, just randomly saying this by the way =p)

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour after post)

haha yepp thats pretty much me right there =)

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

well is almost 12 and i got school in the morning. yay i get to face everyone looking at me and asking questions and all that fun stuff. thanks alot and have a goodnight!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

it’s raining outside so i’ll sleep alot better tonight. i freaking love the rain!!! =). goodnightt and thank you again!!! =D

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Jayde* edited this post 10 months ago. Read the previous text »

my life as officially gone from really bad to like nucular bomb sight…
so i finally get out of my abusive relationsip with my A-h*le ex. it didn’t go well… i told him that i didn’t want to date anymore and he beat me. luckily i got away before anyting else happened but thats another story.

my best friend that i’ve known since grade 2 is put in a coma because of me… after i was beaten i told david all about it and what my ex said to me and everything else that happend. being the amazing friend that he is he went up to my ex and his friends and tried to talk to them outside of the school. i thought he’d be back in the next 10-15 minutes but when david didn’t come back after half an hour i knew something was wrong i ran outside and looked every where for him.

when i finally found him his ead was split the most of is body bruised and he was lying in a garbage bin. i quickly called 911. but right now hes in the hospital in a coma. i feel like this is completely my fault and i’m going into my depression state again… i don’t know what to do…

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