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Christ, someone needs to press charges.
Did you tell the police what happened?
How can you have an “ex” if you are only 15? And if he put your friend into a coma don’t the police have enough evidence to arrest him?
honestly i don’t know what happend. he just left and never came back then i found him. they cant find my ex and his friends anymore. i just feel like total sh*t for this
Animal i have become wrote:
hang in there
that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
Just as an addendum, this isn’t your fault at all. Unstable people tend to be everywhere and its easy to get mixed up with them. How’s your friend doing?
Keep yourself out of harm’s way. Your ex sounds very dangerous. r u in a safe place?
Kyle_01 wrote:
Animal i have become wrote:that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
hang in there
or theropy and meds also seem to work
Cell wrote:
Keep yourself out of harm’s way. Your ex sounds very dangerous. r u in a safe place?
i’m at my house. but thats not really the safest place
Animal i have become wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:or theropy and meds also seem to work
Animal i have become wrote:that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
hang in there
unfortunatly i got those
r u alone? If you see your ex call 911 right away.
Do have access to any type of protection?
Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:unfortunatly i got those
Kyle_01 wrote:or theropy and meds also seem to work
Animal i have become wrote:that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
hang in there
oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type
Cell wrote:
r u alone? If you see your ex call 911 right away.
my family is here but thats it. we live in a really small area where theres hardly anyone here and i wouldn’t notice him if he came to my house
Animal i have become wrote:
Jayden = wrote:oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type
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Animal i have become wrote:unfortunatly i got those
Kyle_01 wrote:or theropy and meds also seem to work
Animal i have become wrote:that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
hang in there
i’ve been trying some different one for a while. but i dont really ave anyone to ask on that because i don’t know anyone who as these problems and i’m too sy to confront myself to the people i know about that stuff
How about going to freakin’ Doctor???
southern_comfort wrote:
How about going to freakin’ Doctor???
i do go to a doctor, but i hate him. which really doesn’t help
Jayden = wrote:
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Animal i have become wrote:i’ve been trying some different one for a while. but i dont really ave anyone to ask on that because i don’t know anyone who as these problems and i’m too sy to confront myself to the people i know about that stuff
Jayden = wrote:oh i had to go through multiple meds try to get a diff. type
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Animal i have become wrote:unfortunatly i got those
Kyle_01 wrote:or theropy and meds also seem to work
Animal i have become wrote:that’s the best advice to stick to. Just hang in. When I got a letter in the mail saying i had to go to court i thought, Oh Shi*, and was depressed for about a week, but you just have to learn to not worry. Time will make the depression go away, just takes time
hang in there
ya its hard i know my parents dont even know im depressed let alone im doing meds and have had a life full of ________ so i do it through the school and i just talk to the school psycyotrist (sorry for spelling) and tell him that the meds arnt working,its eisier after its over sounds wierd but its true
yeah that was starting to get big. i had to let my parents know about my depression. but sometimes i wish they didn’t because now my little sister whos only 11 is catching on and i dont want her to know this. right now my parents think everything is okay but its just getting worse and worse. they don’t even know i was in a abusive relationship. somehow they just never really found out
You need to tell them now. They need to know what to do when he shows up.
You didn’t do anything wrong. Not a thing.
Your ex is a weakling. He can’t face reality and needs to take his anger out on that which is smaller than him. He can’t gain the respect he wants, so he instills fear instead.
You did the RIGHT thing.
they know that david is in the hospital they just dont know it was him who did it and that he was also abusive to me as well. my parents dont really actually care all tat much to tell you the truth.
definitly doesnt feel like the right thing…
Devil_on_Earth wrote:
I’m so sorry honey! I hope David gets better…
thank you, hopefully he does. i have no idea what i’d do if he died…
Devil_on_Earth wrote:
You’d continue going and living in his memory
dont think like that think positive he will live =)
lol thanks, i really do not want to have another friend pass away. that was the worst time and still is of my life
wait that didnt make sense lol ohh well. just glad i’m not in english class then
i’m just hoping for it. i already made a promise to myself that i’d visit him as much as i could till he wakes up ( see positive =D)
thanks, i’m sure he will (my attempt and thinking positive as much as i can)
i live in minysoda(minnesota) its like 10:30 so im getting a little tired. good luck tomarrow
thankss. hopefully i dont think i have to worry about my ex or his friend showing up at school for awhile… hopefully… (lol my uncle lives there, just randomly saying this by the way =p)
well is almost 12 and i got school in the morning. yay i get to face everyone looking at me and asking questions and all that fun stuff. thanks alot and have a goodnight!!
it’s raining outside so i’ll sleep alot better tonight. i freaking love the rain!!! =). goodnightt and thank you again!!! =D
Jayde* edited this post 10 months ago. Read the previous text »
my life as officially gone from really bad to like nucular bomb sight…
so i finally get out of my abusive relationsip with my A-h*le ex. it didn’t go well… i told him that i didn’t want to date anymore and he beat me. luckily i got away before anyting else happened but thats another story.
my best friend that i’ve known since grade 2 is put in a coma because of me… after i was beaten i told david all about it and what my ex said to me and everything else that happend. being the amazing friend that he is he went up to my ex and his friends and tried to talk to them outside of the school. i thought he’d be back in the next 10-15 minutes but when david didn’t come back after half an hour i knew something was wrong i ran outside and looked every where for him.
when i finally found him his ead was split the most of is body bruised and he was lying in a garbage bin. i quickly called 911. but right now hes in the hospital in a coma. i feel like this is completely my fault and i’m going into my depression state again… i don’t know what to do…
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